long distance relationship
By Yumeko
@aureategloom (11025)
Bosnia And Herzegovina
July 30, 2019 5:09am CST
now that i've already started this love-related discussion, i guess i could mention this thing too.
since i'm in a distance relationship myself, i can say that i really enjoy it. this kind of relationship can be hard to maintain, but not impossible. it's hard for people who are worried that their partner might lie to them or cheat on them and that's why i think that trust is the most important thing in this kind of relationship. actually, in any kind of relationship.
understanding and patience are important too.
sometimes we don't see each other for 2 weeks or more, because of other responsibilities we have, so we just spend time talking to each other and it's all worth it the moment we get to see each other and spend some time together. the good thing is that we're not much far away from each other and we can get there by the bus in like 3 hours.
i have a friend who said that he couldn't stand being in a long distance relationship because he wants to be with his girlfriend whenever they want to be together.
what do you think of this kind of relationship? have you ever been in one?
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12 responses
@lovebuglena (52141)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Jul 19
Long distance relationships are hard because there is no physical closeness with the other person. Can't hug or embrace or kiss... or see the other person in real life as opposed to on the phone or computer screen. And that can make a relationship end. Happened to me.
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@lovebuglena (52141)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Jul 19
@aureategloom How often do you get to see each other in person?
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
31 Jul 19
my boyfriend and i have a deal that if we break up, the reason may not be "we haven't seen each other for a long time", because we knew that it would be like that when we decided to date.
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
31 Jul 19
@lovebuglena now, during summer, much more often then when college starts. during that time, sometimes we don't see each other for a month or more.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
30 Jul 19
It's personal or choice aur personal understanding depend on on this matter.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
11 Aug 19
@aureategloom thanks, good morning and happy Sunday
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
11 Aug 19
@Starkinds thank you, good morning to you too
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@psanasangma (7910)
• India
2 Aug 19
I think in my opinion, 3 hours is not long distance. you can still visit each other. Its ' a matter of understanding and trust
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
3 Aug 19
@aureategloom we took off on our vocabulary the word “busy” that time. A simple one liner message will make a huge difference
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
3 Aug 19
amazing, congratulations :)
constant communication can be hard sometimes, when we're both busy, but we communicate as much as we can .
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
what do you mean "i think i have", not sure if you've been in a relationship haha
happens
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@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
@aureategloom 
because at first it wasn’t long distance then he moved to a different place. I was at fault and I don’t like ever feeling torn so I ended it.
because at first it wasn’t long distance then he moved to a different place. I was at fault and I don’t like ever feeling torn so I ended it.1 person likes this
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
@weevee18 oh, that makes sense
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
1 Aug 19
Yes, I have been in that kind of relationship. And we kept it intact because trust, understanding and patience.
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
11 Aug 19
@aureategloom That's nice to hear. I know you can do it.
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Aug 19
hopefully our relationship works out too.
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@rsa101 (40946)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
I admire people who can stand being away from their love ones. In your case, I feel that is not really long distance since you can still see each other if you wanted to since you can travel easily to meet. But for some the distance can be a challenge for them and yet they prevail and those are what amazes me.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
yes, it's amazing if they meet each other in real life first. but it's also kinda weird when they meet online. how is it possible that you can't find somebody in your country, but you find "the perfect one" on the internet and he/she is in another country or even a continent. it's weird, isn't it?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
30 Jul 19
@aureategloom
I will say I am happy for you that he is not that far away from you so you can see him. Not all long distance or overseas relationships work out.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
30 Jul 19
@aureategloom
That is good that you are trying. I hope it all works out for you and you are welcome.
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
yes, i know that. but we're trying.
thank you :)
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@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
30 Jul 19
I am just like your friend I can't stop loving once am loving somebody it's a barrier I wouldn't want to be in with intention. It never ends right unless its a blue moon. However in your case I duly hope it goes right 
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
many people are like my friend.
thank you :)
@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
10 Aug 19
makes sense, but i think it's not smart to plan toooo far in the future.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
30 Jul 19
but there are periods when we're spending time together. we were together on vacation, he comes to my town to see me now when we have enough time, so it's fine.
