Got info about a Mylotter here @Hatley

The semblance of @Hatleys artwork, her favorite work
@cacay1 (83223)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 1, 2019 1:47am CST
Those who are here for many years now surely remember @Hatley. Last night, when I opened my Facebook, I saw there her son Robbie on line so I chanced myself to ask about the updates of his mom. Robbie and I are friends in Facebook. He said that his mom is now 92 years old and so sad, she cannot anymore hear and see. She became deaf and blind. He told me that she could have 50/ 50 chance to see again, but his income is not enough to undergo an eye operation for his mom. His mom is now in a care center, he also said said despite her sickness, she cannot forget to utter some people she knew in Mylot and the sweet memories continue to linger . Let us pray for @Hatley God to give her strengths and a little joy that could inspire her in her weakest and painful situation she would carry on as long as she lives. SIGH! The image here is the semblance of @Hatley's favorite work. Image credit to Facebook
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@DianneN (246466)
• United States
1 Aug 19
I’ve been praying for her since the day she disappeared from myLot.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@DianneN, she's so pitiful, helpless .
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@DianneN (246466)
• United States
1 Aug 19
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@jstory07 (134347)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Aug 19
That is really sad. I liked reading all of her discussions every day.
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@akalinus (40440)
• United States
2 Aug 19
I always answered her even if I had no idea what she said.
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@akalinus (40440)
• United States
3 Aug 19
@cacay1 She should be covered by insurance, at least Medicare or Medicaid. I think Medicare does not consider the ears, eyes, or teeth as parts of the body but maybe Medicaid does.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 19
@akalinus many cannot believe the fate she has in her old age. It is not easy her eyes cannot anymore see the sun again and her ears could possible hear again through a hearing aid but they cannot afford to buy, so sad.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
1 Aug 19
Thanks for the news! I wish her endurance in her older years.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@1hopefulman, let's hope she could endure the burden put on her shoulder. It's so hard life having suffered that way. May she endure all the pains.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48896)
• United States
1 Aug 19
Thanks for letting us know. I have wonderful where she was.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@Tampa_girl7, so sad, she losts her sight and hearing .
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• United States
1 Aug 19
aw, bless her. i'm confused 'bout the eye surgery 'n why her insurance'd not pay fer such? many questions 'f which i'm sure y'ave not the answers to. thanks fer the update.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@crazyhorseladycx, According to her son Robbie, the insurance company cannot anymore give her free insurance for she already accumulated. She had been under treatment many times and shouldered by her insurance.Maybe the insurance company felt no assurance of her treatment considering her age, 92. There might be limit of her insurance.
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• United States
1 Aug 19
@cacay1 ought not be any limit if'n she's medicare, which she ought'a have. i'd lean more towards the latter?? that'n possible complications from her diabetes .
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@crazyhorseladycx , no my friend she has a cataract and no money to undergo the operation.That was posted here when she was active in this site.
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@GooglePlus (3807)
1 Aug 19
We should have a gofundme page for her as well. Please discuss the amount and let's start a page. We will circulate it on facebook if it is not allowed here. Let's discuss this with Mylot Bug too!
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• Kansas City, Missouri
1 Aug 19
This is approved for Patsie Hatley, as she was on myLot for 10+ years.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@myLotBugs aw okay, that's great his son will surely appreciate it. Who would draft the fundraiser page?
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1 Aug 19
@cacay1 I already message @mylotbugs regarding same. I wont be able to create a gofundme page... Someone has to do it for us.
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@buenavida (9985)
• Sweden
1 Aug 19
Thank you for letting us know.. I might still be her friend in Facebook..have wondered how she was doing..
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@buenavida (9985)
• Sweden
2 Aug 19
@cacay1 Yes, I read about it..so sad - many of us miss her articles
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 19
@buenavida yes she is also a very happy lady.What a pain losing the important parts of her the eyes and ears, so sad.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
Welcome there's a post here that explains well about her condition Try to read under topic suggestion @buenavida.
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@dodo19 (47045)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Aug 19
Thanks for the update. I'm sad to hear this. I'm glad that he is there for her and she is living with him.
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@dodo19 (47045)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Aug 19
@cacay1 I can only imagine how difficult it is for them right now. It's heartbreaking.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@dodo19 , that is true how nice to reach very old age but hearing and eyesight not impaired or in total loss, very devastating.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@adodo19, it is so sad to know she became deaf and blind. That is too much to bear by her and her son .
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@marguicha (215305)
• Chile
1 Aug 19
I am so sorry! Is there a possibility of getting money through Go fund me?
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@marguicha (215305)
• Chile
1 Aug 19
@cacay1 Maybe we should ask him. They texted today a go fund me fundraise to help Gil´s family pay for his hospital expenses. Hatley is a very special mylotter.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@marguicha that is true and her son is so happy to know about this fundraising.he is going to ask Hatley's doctor how much would be the cost before he drafts the fundraising texts.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@marguicha, yes there is, and mylot owner would allow to initiate fundraising for Hatley.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
1 Aug 19
I feel sad that Hatley cannot hear and see anymore. I hope deapite tha she can live without pains. What is important is that she is now with his son. I am happy though, she remembers some mylotters still. How come you are friends with her son?
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
I am happy he is a nie man. He is well raised by Ms. Hatley. Sad though, that she's now deaf and blind.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@SIMPLYD, yes true, it's a consolation to know Mrs, Hatley is living with his son. I got to know his son when he was introduced here I think two years ago when Hatley was not anymore active here. One friend of her told about the name of her son Robbie Hatley. You may also add him in your FB account just tell hime that you are also from Mylot and friend of his mom. Her son is also very nice man.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 19
@SIMPLYD she is deaf and blind and she is now in a care center.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
17 Aug 19
Wow, I feel so bad. I loved her. She was a great friend here on MyLot. I really hope she can get the chance to see again. That would be wonderful for her. I know she loved being on Mylot all the time. I read her posts all the time and responded. Again, Wow. I cannot believe this.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
18 Aug 19
@cacay1 Don't worry about a late reply. Yeah it is sad to know she can no longer see. Wow. I did notice her errors writing, but I never thought it was from her eye sight. I thought it was just her typing or maybe shaking while she typed. Wow. So so sad. But I will always remember her.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Aug 19
@inertia4 , it is hard to believe, shocking reality. The time she was still writing her, we noticed errors she committed in her writing. The reason was she almost cannot see those days when she was with the Mylot people.I am so sorry for the late reply, so busy at work.
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17 Aug 19
Hey Now... It was great to see you back... Do you remember me ? How are you doing? And ... Do you know matesgate admin?
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
1 Aug 19
Oh thanks for the update and this is so sad. I am glad she still remembers some from here!
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@LeaPea2417 (36428)
• Toccoa, Georgia
2 Aug 19
@cacay1 She is on my friends list on Facebook. Her son Robby put out a post on her profile about how she is not living with him. She is in a nursing home but not getting all the care she needs because she can not pay the full price to stay there. He says he is very poor and wishes he could afford to get her desperately needed cataract surgery for her eyes. If she could get that, she would be able to see.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 19
@LeaPea2417 thankfl for the correction made by Robbie to me the other night. Maybe he forgot for he is so disturbed with the situation of his mom. Let us just offer our moral support through prayers .
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@LeaPea2417, at least despite cannot hear and see but she could still speak, thankfully .Prayers sent for her.
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@LadyDuck (457768)
• Switzerland
1 Aug 19
Is Patsie living with her son now? I am so sorry to hear that she is so sick, she loved to discuss with us.
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@LadyDuck (457768)
• Switzerland
1 Aug 19
@cacay1 I know, I am also friend with her son on Facebook, but it is a bit of time that I do not log into my facebook account.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@LadyDuck try to log on this evening or during your day time. This day he is on line again, but I have another concern. I may ask him next months from now about the update of his mom. he gave me the telephone number for me to call her and that was last year, but I told Robbie that I am so far away, from the Philippines
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Aug 19
@LadyDuck,hi Anne? Yes she is living with her son. It is so devastating disabilty of Patsie Hatley. Their family name is Hatley.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
2 Aug 19
Prayers going out to her...She was a very brave person who wrote such a variety of posts. Loved to hear about her experiences
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@responsiveme , her posts were so unique though she tried so hard. Those times seemed she cannot anymore see well .
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@kareng (54513)
• United States
4 Aug 19
I do remember Hatley and I'm so sad to hear of this. My prayers go out to her. And thank you for posting the update.
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@kareng (54513)
• United States
8 Aug 19
@cacay1 Yes, she is.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 19
@kareng that is true, she has many nice memories with us.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Aug 19
@kareng, Many of us cannot forget her, she is a funny lady.
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@tammys85 (29946)
• Baltimore, Maryland
2 Aug 19
That's so sad. :( I'm she's able to live with him. I hope he'll be able to get the money for the surgery in the near future. Thank you for updating us.
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@tammys85 (29946)
• Baltimore, Maryland
8 Aug 19
@cacay1 I've read the updates from others since this post, and I hope things get better for her.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@tammys85 , I do not know if this will be pushed through. It seems no one likes to initiate.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Aug 19
@tammys85 let us wait and see from her son and wait and see if she could still see again.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
1 Aug 19
I'm so sorry to hear that. She is such a sweet person and I have missed her.
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@just4him (305735)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Aug 19
I'm sorry to hear she's deaf and blind. I'm very happy to know she's still with the world and lives with her son.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@corbin5, yes at least she is now wit her son, before she prefers to live alone no matter how her son invites her to live with him.
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@YuleimaVzla (1505)
• Maracaibo, Venezuela
2 Aug 19
I have been in this community for a couple of years, but it was not until now that I decided to resume mylot again after a rather large cessation, but although I do not know this person, I would like to tell you from the heart that I will pray for their lives, and In addition, I congratulate your initiative, since I believe that you consider members more than just members, but consider them your friends, and that says many good things about you.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@YuleimaVzla , thanks lady, Mylot is like the extension of our family. We know each other here, have lots of fun and share many things .
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@YuleimaVzla very well said my friend . Thanks.
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• Maracaibo, Venezuela
2 Aug 19
@cacay1 Yes, in my resumption with mylot I have already re-made friends who, somehow I read every day, and their stories, and every day they make me part of their lives, until they get together in knowing who we are simply by seeing our nicknames, then Come to empathy, see what happens to us, if we are right or wrong and be there for them. Greetings.
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2 Aug 19
thank you for sharing, even in mylot we could find friends that thinks about us. =)
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
3 Aug 19
@margomyrrh really? I am so happy to have met you here. The feeling is nice.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
2 Aug 19
@margomyrrh ,that is true, Mylot seems an extension of our family.
2 Aug 19
@cacay1 yeah, you know what i am from bukidnon philippines =) were kababayan =)
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