Have any of you met charmers that did not affect you but others were affected?
By Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (129966)
Israel
August 6, 2019 8:37am CST
The one that lives above us is a jerk and has bothered me for so long. Others think he is nice but I know he is not. They do not have to live below him. A friend talked to him the other day and now he thinks he is good. I told him he is a liar and I think my friend does not understand and will not talk to me now. It is sad that no one believes me and I know the truth. Has that happened to you and you were alone in the situation?
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@arunima25 (86091)
• Bangalore, India
6 Aug 19
Actually likes and dislikes are subjective to a person. And it always depends on personal experiences. Maybe others did not get that vibes that you get.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@arunima25
They did not but do not live underneath the jerk and have to hear the noise and seeing how lazy he is. He doesn't care about me or want to help me but he has convinced them that he is nice which I know he is not. So they do not believe me and i do not say anything anymore. I have other things that I have to deal with and it does not include him.
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@arunima25 (86091)
• Bangalore, India
7 Aug 19
@Hannihar He seems to be smart enough to pretend and fool others. It's better to ignore him and go ahead with life But i know having such people as neighbors can be a real pain.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
8 Aug 19
@arunima25
I try to ignore him and I would not call him smart. I would say he has street smarts and knows how to fool others.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
6 Aug 19
yup. my ex son'n law. i knew the minute i laid eyes'n him 'twas danger. all else told me i 'twas jest imaginin' thingies. he nearly killed my daughter with his violent temper....
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@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
7 Aug 19
@Hannihar yes ma'am, we went'n got her'n the grands. the damage 'twas 'lready done - all scarred fer life. the courts did nothin' to him.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@crazyhorseladycx
I hope she was able to get away from him and is in a better place now. That is very scary.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@crazyhorseladycx
I can understand how it can leave a mark on her and she would be scarred. It is very sad that there are those that act that way. It is very sad that the court did not do anything. He should be locked away for good. What a shame.
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@LovingMyBabies (85125)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Aug 19
I have gotten that feeling before about someone-sometimes others would listen and sometimes they wouldn't but I know God is always on my side.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@LovingMyBabies
For me it is frustrating when people do not listen to what I have to say and instead are dragged into their charms and believe him. You are right G-d sees all.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
4 Sep 19
Yes it does ...these neighbors are complete maniacs I have.
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@TiarasOceanView (70035)
• United States
5 Sep 19
@Hannihar They are so bad Hanni.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
5 Sep 19
@TiarasOceanView
I also have bad neighbors and people that do not know how to park their vehicles.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
5 Sep 19
@TiarasOceanView
I know what that is like and nothing I can do about it so trying to find a way to find peace within myself so I do not upset my cat.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49371)
• United States
29 Aug 19
One of my friends was married to a charmer (Jerk). She found out the hard way
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
30 Aug 19
@Tampa_girl7
I can understand how one can fall for one and then find out the hard way.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
30 Aug 19
@Tampa_girl7
Yes, it is very sad when you live with 24/7 then you really get to know them. Then you can truly see what kind of person it is.
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
7 Aug 19
Those people are two faced, sadly I have a low tolerance for fake people and potty mouth jejejeje
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
12 Aug 19
@Hannihar its good that you see who they are and can protect yourself
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
8 Aug 19
@BACONSTRIPSXXX
Yes Michael they are and do it on purpose. They do not want the world to see who they truly are, but, some see right through them.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
13 Aug 19
@BACONSTRIPSXXX
The thing is I cannot protect myself really. I can protect my scooter but still the problem of getting it out of where it is and out on the road to start my day or to get back in is another problem. For me I have no one to talk to or to help me with the situation. People get sucked into his trap and do not believe me and I live underneath him so I know he is causing us trouble.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@just4him
I am not sure it helps me because then others turn against me. I do not care about them but a friend that talked to him fell into his trap and now I think he does not want to talk to me. The guy lied to him and the friend told me I have to make an effort but I do not see any change and I felt him talking to the person did not help at all.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Aug 19
its happened with me too but thing is that what we seen is not seen by others and people not understand until they face so once they experience that thing then they will know. Some people easily caught and some not.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
7 Aug 19
@Hannihar truth never hide and one day anyhow it comes up so though its later but people will know about it.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@birjudanak
You are right. Until these people experience it they will not understand what I am saying or going through.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@birjudanak
I keep saying I may not be around to see it but they will get theirs.
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
6 Aug 19
Yeah that happens to me, I get this certain feeling around people and I can sense if something is iffy about them. But others seems to like those people very much.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@hillhjill
They do not see the truth or the real person which is very sad.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
8 Aug 19
@hillhjill
Thank you and yes it is very sad.
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@Shivram59 (32338)
• India
7 Aug 19
@Hannihar Yes and no.Here in my town there are people who I know are liars and dishonest,and others too have the same opinion about them.On the other hand,there are people who I think are good and honest,but others disagree with me .
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@Shivram59
So maybe one day you will find out if the ones that disagree with you are wrong or not.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@Shivram59
You would be surprised. There are those that can hide who they really are unless you live with them and see the real them.
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@Shivram59 (32338)
• India
7 Aug 19
@Hannihar May be.Nobody can hide their true colours.True faces of people get revealed.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@yanzalong
I definitely do because they are fake and hide their true natures.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
7 Aug 19
I'm with you, sometimes the first impression we got from them is true, its so happen other people don't feel what we feel.
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@ilocosboy
You are so right. The people in this building are families with kids or couple or a lady with children so they do not see what I see or experience what I experience.
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@TheGreater (125)
•
6 Aug 19
well they don't know the person so they will judge based by their experience
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@Hannihar (129966)
• Israel
7 Aug 19
@TheGreater
I have lived here so much longer than him and the landlords of that apartment are horrible. When I first moved there there was such a nice family that lived there and then they left and a couple lived there and moved and after that scum. It is sad that there are those that have to find someone and decide they will hassle them and not care.
