Do you have a person in your life who loves you unconditionally?
By Diana
@dya80dya (36805)
August 29, 2019 1:52pm CST
I had such a person in my life. She was my grandmother. She always said good words about me. She loved me unconditionally. She helped me in every way she could. But now I don't have such a person in my life. My parents love me, but if they help me they reproach me. If they give me something they make me feel bad. They love me only if I am as they want. Do you have a person in your life who loves you unconditionally?
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@lovebuglena (52257)
• Staten Island, New York
29 Aug 19
I'd say my parents do and I would like to think that hubby as well.
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
29 Aug 19
It's surely my parents. They love me unconditionally. In specific, my dad has loads of affection on me.. Till date, he doesn't consider me as a grown up adult. I'm still his little daughter and he Pampers me like one. 
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@smileyhema (4463)
• United States
29 Aug 19
@dya80dya Yeah. I'm lucky and that's what I feel so often. Just that, I'm not able to be with them. Nobody to blame and that's the marriage system. 
I get your point. Our career influences so much in our personal life and vice-versa. May be, your father showered affection in a different way?
I get your point. Our career influences so much in our personal life and vice-versa. May be, your father showered affection in a different way?1 person likes this
@dya80dya (36805)
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29 Aug 19
This is so nice of him. You are lucky to have him in your life. My father worked in the army. He thinks we are his soldiers. He never pampered me, even if I was a small child. When I saw how different were other fathers with their daughters I cried. He never played with me. He is a cold man.
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@Starkinds (32737)
• India
30 Aug 19
Wow the same way my mum and dad also treat me like that
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
29 Aug 19
When I was young and did something bad and my parents were unhappy and felt bad and disciplined me but they continued to love me would that qualify as unconditional love?
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@dya80dya (36805)
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29 Aug 19
Yes. If they continued to love you despite your mistakes it's unconditional love. My parents reproach me everything they do for me. They have to pay for my therapy or other things. They want me to have my own money, but now it's impossible. It would be possible if I wouldn't have an anxiety disorder.
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@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
30 Aug 19
@dya80dya I'm sorry that you're parents are not able to give you the love you need. 
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@dya80dya (36805)
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31 Aug 19
@1hopefulman And no one is able to give me the love I need. This is why I love animals. They love us unconditionally.
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
31 Aug 19
Yes I do. My son is like that. I am sorry your grandmother is no longer RIP
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@TiarasOceanView (70020)
• United States
1 Sep 19
@dya80dya Yes we have our spats but in the end we stand with eachother.
@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
7 Sep 19
My grandparents were like that. And they were the greatest influence on my life as they were my main care takers during my growing up years. I miss them.
But now it is my mother who is such a big emotional support to me. Moms are all like that. They give you the purest love.
