oh, what a glorious mourning
By Elizabeth
@Poppylicious (11134)
United Kingdom
September 16, 2019 12:53am CST
Husband's aunty passed away a couple of weeks ago. She was seventy, and it was Cancer. The funeral is on Wednesday and family instructions are that we all wear bright clothing. This isn't particularly surprising; his cousin insisted on Disney ties for all men at her wedding.
However, what may surprise you is that neither of us own brightly coloured clothing. Well, I do possess a bright blue t-shirt, but it has a PS4 game emblazoned on the chest. Not appropriate. I also possess a lovely red cardigan, but it's bit too snug for me to wear. Most of my clothes are a bit too snug. I really must lose weight. Like mine, Husband's wardrobe is made up of darker colours and shades.
Saturday was therefore a mad rush to buy some funeral appropriate gear of the bright persuasion. He has two smart polo shirts to choose from. I have mustard tights to complement a mustard cardigan.
No doubt it will be a hot day.
Sunday meanwhile, was a day whence Betty got her sweaty on. I popped into the garden to do a spot of gardening, and a spot became an entire afternoon which culminated in a giant, Oof! as I pulled a particularly pesky shrub root out of an unyielding patch of flowerbed.
And now, it is Monday. It is glorious. I slept quite well and am currently enjoying the grey clouds and drizzle of rain which patters gently upon the bus window.
Today WILL be a good day.
I hope.
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@xFiacre (14795)
• Ireland
16 Sep 19
@poppylicious It is important that one dresses in such a fashion so that one is distinguishable from the deceased- you certainly don’t want to upstage her or be mistaken for her.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
16 Sep 19
So my Morticia outfit is not appropriate? Darn it.
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@xFiacre (14795)
• Ireland
16 Sep 19
@Poppylicious you can come as Morticia if I can be your cousin It.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39503)
• United States
16 Sep 19
condolences'n the loss 'f someone so vibrant, hon. may all find comfort knowin' she no longer 'tis sufferin'. i so despise cancer...
i love that she wished fer folks to wear bright 'n cheerful clothin'. gigglin' o'er the disney tie weddin' attire, would'a loved to've met her! i hope ya don't melt'n yer cardigan.
sounds a most busy 'n productive day out'n the garden. sounds like me, i go fer a certain troublesome spot 'n spend lots 'f hours. 'lways thinkin', "jest one more".
i do hope y'ave a great day, hon. 



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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
16 Sep 19
so what color was your aunty wearing?
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@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
18 Sep 19
@Poppylicious i see. here, caskets are usually half or fully open.
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@Poppylicious (11134)
• United Kingdom
17 Sep 19
I have no idea what she'll be wearing, and I'll never know unless I'm told! Open caskets aren't the norm in England.
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@Michellekidwell (29953)
• Sonora, California
16 Sep 19
I am sorry to hear of the loss of your husband’s Aunt!
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Well said.



