There is always always something to be thankful for

@NJChicaa (116013)
United States
September 20, 2019 6:04pm CST
I just saw a meme on Facebook that said that. It was a good reminder. I've been very sad, depressed, and miserable the past many months since my then-husband told me that he wanted a divorce and the divorce was finalized. I have felt hopeless, helpless, and alone. But now that I think about it I do have many things to be thankful for. My family and friends. The fact that I have a good job with job security and awesome medical benefits. My health isn't perfect but I don't have any dangerous disease. I can pay my bills at the end of each month. I have food in the fridge, freezer, and cabinets. I am strong from going to the gym regularly. It is good to remember these things. I spend so much time lately thinking about what I've lost that it is hard to remember what I DO have.
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@CarolDM (203452)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Sep 19
This is very true, no matter how bad we have it, there is always someone worse off.
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
20 Sep 19
I agree
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@kobesbuddy (74591)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Sep 19
I did the exact same thing! Instead of focusing on what I'd lost, I was instructed to write down everything that I'm thankful for. I could almost fill a notebook!
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
20 Sep 19
That's great that you have so many blessings
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
20 Sep 19
@kobesbuddy I'm not ashamed but I just need to remember that I have a lot of good in my life
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@kobesbuddy (74591)
• East Tawas, Michigan
20 Sep 19
@NJChicaa I told Chuck(my counselor) I had nothing left to look forward to. He gave me an assignment, to write down the positive things that I'm thankful for. Of course, my two children were at the top of the list. He really got me thinking, I was ashamed for complaining so much.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Sep 19
This is awesome to read and a good reminder for everyone. =)
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
20 Sep 19
It is
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@Tampa_girl7 (49005)
• United States
22 Sep 19
Keep staying positive.
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@NJChicaa (116013)
• United States
22 Sep 19
I'm trying!
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
21 Sep 19
And you have a wonderful bird and cat.... oh and me! As a friend. I am glad you are seeing that you are an awesome person.
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