If Things are meant for you

@ZedSmart (19839)
Philippines
October 10, 2019 10:11pm CST
Do you believe that if things are meant for you, you can have it even if you do not work hard for it? Or in contrast, if things are not meant for you, no matter hard you work or fought for it, it will never become yours? Based on some experience, I think there is some truth on this but I also believe that we should not give up on our dreams even how hard the obstacles on its way.
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Desiree Palomo
@Dyvette16 (4299)
• United States
11 Oct 19
Of course always keep going and keep pushing Dont want to live saying I wonder what would of happened if I did this or that
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Desiree Palomo
@Dyvette16 (4299)
• United States
11 Oct 19
@ZedSmart exactly ! And also staying consistent is the best way to get fastest results (:
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
@Dyvette16 I agree on this and in addition give focus. The reason maybe I failed in few attempts because I lost my focus.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
Yes, we must do something otherwise we do not see results.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
11 Oct 19
I do understand and somehow believe, we get what is meant for us. But I do believe that working hard is equally important. Certainly if you give up without trying, it's a pure waste. After all, God help those, who help themselves
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
12 Oct 19
The action starts from us.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11433)
• New Delhi, India
13 Oct 19
@ZedSmart Very True
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Anna
@LadyDuck (502148)
• Italy
11 Oct 19
I agree, this is why I always say to my husband that "we must not force the destiny".
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
True Ms Anna. Because if it happens, it will.
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@acelawrites
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
It's true; if you want to have something or achieve it, work for it; but never be frustrated if you can't have it.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
Maybe we can try even harder.
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Abby
@a_jerobon (2317)
• Eldoret, Kenya
11 Oct 19
I don't know if there is some truth in that. I always believe that if I work hard to get something I want, then I will get it. If I don't, then there is some explainable reason and not just entirely that I was not meant for it.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
There maybe no limitations in trying only then some of us give-up after multiple attempts of failure. Thank you.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
Yes you can also get what you want by working on it. But what if you tried and failed, you start to have this existential questions.
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
This is a very good question. My coping mechanism in this lifetime after trying and not getting the desired result is to think that there is a future lifetime where if God/Life wills I can easily have. In the meantime I make do with what I have. Hence the saying "In God's time"
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Arya
@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
Yes. We must also accept the fact that we can't have everything that we want here and by trying so much, it may lead us to somewhere. A place where praises and happiness are there.
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Alex Socorro
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
11 Oct 19
What's meant to be is meant to be. That's the title of one of my songs.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
11 Oct 19
And it's really meant to be...
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Fae Maverick
@Fa_Maverick (9491)
• Australia
22 Apr 20
Nope, some things are just not meant to be and you will never have it no matter how hard you work for it. That's just how life is. I would have loved to make a home with my now ex but we were two different worlds and it never would have worked.
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@ZedSmart (19839)
• Philippines
22 Apr 20
Who knows, in a matter of time you will become reconcilable.
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Fae Maverick
@Fa_Maverick (9491)
• Australia
22 Apr 20
@ZedSmart no that won't be possible ever. I wouldnt take him back even if he wanted me. He threatened me with harming people I love and others I didn't he's volatile and I never want to be with someone that can disrespect me so much.