What is your reaction to misunderstandings here?

@dya80dya (36805)
December 18, 2019 8:05am CST
I often had misunderstandings here. I wrote something and some people totally misunderstood the meaning of my words. I really couldn't understand why my words were misunderstood. In the past misunderstandings made me give up on this site for a while. I was very affected. But now I have a different attitude. I know that many people don't read discussions and most people only want money. Even if we earn cents, they add up. What is your reaction to misunderstandings here? Do they upset you?
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
18 Dec 19
It hurts when you are misunderstood. I woukd like to correct and clarify to some extent but then give up or ignore. But I would not give up on this site because few people misunderstand or are rude.
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
I agree with you. Few people are rude here. I am disappointed when someone misunderstands my words. But maybe people read lots of discussions or they are tired.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
19 Dec 19
@dya80dya We have so many good people here and they are good enough to interact. We can always ignore the rude ones.
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@Janet357 (75638)
18 Dec 19
when someone is rude here, i dont respond to his or her discussions anymore.
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
I will do the same. In this way we avoid conflicts. But sometimes people who don't understand what we say aren't rude. Maybe they are tired or upset.
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@Janet357 (75638)
18 Dec 19
@dya80dya there was a mylotter who once said to me- read it again, it was a command and i could sense her irritation. from time one, i have not answered to her stuff.
• Valdosta, Georgia
18 Dec 19
I'm free from me so I'm free from others...I don't get offended anymore, it's not about me. And being here is definitely not about money, I enjoy my time here. =)
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
Spending time here can be positive if people aren't rude. I think it's true, it's not about us. People have their own problems.
• Philippines
18 Dec 19
I leave it alone, until I chose to either report or block that person. Report would be better if he or she starts cursing.
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
Did this happen to you? Did someone start cursing? I think if they do this they will have their account banned.
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
18 Dec 19
I sometimes read too fast but misunderstanding a post is not always.
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
Yes, this can happen. And when we read a discussion the title can be misleading.
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
18 Dec 19
@dya80dya there was a post by Rodick about not many Chinese and I misread it as many Chinese. Oh, what a big mistake.
@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
18 Dec 19
I often try to keep quiet
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@dya80dya (36805)
18 Dec 19
It's better to keep quiet because we avoid conflicts. And conflicts are not good for anyone.
@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
21 Jan 20
I will usually re-word what I've said or politely explain that I meant something else. I realise that many myLotters don't speak English as their first language so will make allowances in such circumstances. There have been one or two occasions when people just didn't understand, no matter how many times I explained, and others who, apparently, chose to be contrary. Mostly, though, misunderstandings are just that and can be sorted out easily enough.
@maezee (41985)
• United States
18 Dec 19
I think we all come from very different places, cultures and languages. So misunderstandings are bound to happen!
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@sprite1950 (30461)
• Corsham, England
21 Dec 19
Text is very open to misinterpretation. We don't have the facial expressions and body language which we do when speaking face to face. Sometimes however there is no mistaking a rude comment and I do tend to retaliate. I've been on the naughty step a few times on other forums Like you I have left sites before now because I was so angry but I think it's best to try and avoid the person who has upset you and move on. Now I think why should I let someone chase me off somewhere I enjoy being. So far I haven't had a misunderstanding here yet but I'm not here on a regular basis. Give it time!
@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
23 Dec 19
Sometimes it is kind of upsetting if someone commented differently over my discussion. But I just let it pass. I don't take ugly comments seriously or I will be the one to suffer in the end.
@florelway (23339)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Dec 19
It could be upsetting. Cultural differences could also add to misunderstanding and how words are used but at the end of the day it's all virtual interaction and your connection begins and ends at this site.