Unexpected and Uninvited.

@rakski (156300)
Philippines
January 17, 2020 7:59am CST
So much for sleeping early. Just as my son is finishing his milk, the doorbell rings at 9:45 pm. My mother-in-law suddenly pops out of nowhere , she is not a ghost. She is with my sister-in-law, my SIL lives 2 blocks from us. No letting me know ahead that this will happen. Now, my head is throbbing and I cannot sleep yet because the kids are still playing with her. How do you deal with uninvited and unexpected guest
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Mathews
@Wana1234 (1518)
• Zambia
17 Jan 20
Uninvited and unexpected guests makes me feel uncomfortable.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
yes and that is how I felt last night.
much2say
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jan 20
Oh no - the time sounds rather late for any visitors! I don't like surprise visits . . . but luckily it's rare that happens. The one time I didn't want someone to come in the house, I told them I was really sick (which was actually true) and they did not bother to come in .
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much2say
@much2say (57760)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Jan 20
@rakski Oh my gosh, really? I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this - especially with your headache!
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
@much2say thank you, I survived
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
yes, that is true, it is a bit late. But being here means she is going to sleep here
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snowy
@snowy22315 (208801)
• United States
17 Jan 20
I guess just pray she just doesn't make a habit of it, if it happens too often, I would ask my husband to speak to her.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
It used to be a habit and then went away. Maybe they forgot to tell me. ahaha
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (381925)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jan 20
Before the days of phones, all guests were uninvited. Mostly they were a welcome interruption. At least, they were to us on the farm as we could go for weeks without seeing anyone other than our own family.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
oh yes, when I was young, we always have uninvited visitors. But they do not arrive at the doorstep at 10pm and they will not sleep in our house
Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
17 Jan 20
Oopps.... i always hate uninvites guests especially if they are my sil
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
we are good, but I prefer that they told me ahead of time out of courtesy right?
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171988)
• Agra, India
18 Jan 20
@rakski haha...I can't even think of expecting any courtesy from my sil
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
@amitkokiladitya aw, yeah right. Sometimes they went overboard
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Grace
@Gracezy (1632)
• Germany
17 Jan 20
I think you should tell her that she need to go home and back again tomorrow if she wants to play with your kids.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
18 Jan 20
she won't be going home until Saturday afternoon with her daughter
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (91299)
• United States
17 Jan 20
Oh well I have one coming we shall see what is going to happen. I dont like it one bit.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
same here, they should have told me before hand
DianneN
@DianneN (254949)
• United States
18 Jan 20
Oh, no! We get them all the time here in Florida. I tell my husband to tell them I'm taking a nap. They must think I'm one tired old bag!
Simone
@Janet357 (75638)
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17 Jan 20
well.sometimes yes some unexpected people visit. but i hate it when i am.sick.and some.friends visit. when i am.sick i just want to be alone with my husband taking care of.me.
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
True, right?
muhammad iqbal
@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
17 Jan 20
here in my religion really guest are considered and most blessings of THE GOD
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rakski
@rakski (156300)
• Philippines
17 Jan 20
oh yes, I read about that. but even uninvited without notice that they are coming?