To be Happy or To Be Right?

Philippines
February 1, 2020 10:03am CST
They always say, "Do what makes you happy", or "Do what is right". But what if at some point they tend to contradict each other? I'm always torn between the two. Which should be more prioritized?
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
1 Feb 20
Choose what makes you happy
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• Philippines
2 Feb 20
thanks for your response I appreciate it
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@resukill22 (25052)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
2 Feb 20
@audreyguapa your always welcome
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@pumpkinjam (8539)
• United Kingdom
3 Feb 20
In my experience, I've often done things because I thought they were right even if they did not make me happy. Whether it was the right thing to do, I don't know. Now, I tend to prioritise the things that make me happy because I spent so many years doing what everything in the best interests of other people. As long as you are not doing anything 'wrong' and you are meeting the needs that you need to meet, I would prioritise doing what makes you happy.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
1 Feb 20
My advice is do what is right and not what makes you happy.but it differs with person to person.
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• Philippines
1 Feb 20
yeah, I think so too... and it depends on the situation.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
1 Feb 20
no problem with either one.I know what makes me happy
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• Philippines
2 Feb 20
good to know :)
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
2 Feb 20
You can be happy doing the right thing.
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• Philippines
17 Feb 20
yes! that is true
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3 Feb 20
This really depends on the situation that you are in with. If you are stuck in a situation that depends on responsibilities and that if people are relying on you to have a better outcome in life, then i rather go to doing what is right regardless if people might seem to think that i am not doing the stuff that makes me happy. Eventually, it will just ripple on the fruits of your labor and you can be happy when you see that what you sacrificed was right and helped the many. Hope it make sense lol. Thanks for your post!
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• Philippines
17 Feb 20
yes, it really made sense! thanks for sharing! because there was a time I got stuck and torn with these two.... I got benefits with my decision and that is doing what is right. I did it for the best. hehe
@TMaynard (29)
• United States
17 Feb 20
What a great question because we all want to be happy. I am at the point in my life where I choose happiness. I do feel that usually when you choose happiness, you will also choose what's right.