What are your requirements in giving out your trust?

@ZedSmart (19753)
Philippines
February 5, 2020 6:32pm CST
Trust is earned. We cannot just trust people because we like them. It is also to be be given with limitations because a little of misunderstanding could ruin it. It must be valued too since it would be difficult to restore the trust that once broken.
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@kanuck1 (4394)
6 Feb 20
I once read a sign that said " In God we trust, everyone else pays cash".
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@kanuck1 (4394)
7 Feb 20
@ZedSmart In a store.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
Where that was?
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
7 Feb 20
@kanuck1 I think I read the same but I can't remember where it was.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
i think most of us trust at first, until something happens and we learn to be wary with them afterwards. however, once in a while, we also encounter people with whom we just don't feel at ease right from the beginning.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
I agree but sometimes our impression were wrong.
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• Philippines
6 Feb 20
@ZedSmart sometimes wrong, sometimes right. but of course all of us don't want to be judged unfairly and hope for second chances
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
6 Feb 20
I've never really thought about requirements to giving my trust. I tend to trust people in general unless I have a particular reason not to, even if that reason is a feeling or instinct. As I get to know people, I'll learn whether I can trust them, how much I can trust them, and with what I can trust them. General trust (such as trusting someone to be honest or not have ulterior motives) is given unless it is broken. Anything beyond that must be built up and earned by demonstrating trust through little things. There are different people I trust with different things.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
This is very well said. Thank you.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
6 Feb 20
I always trust people until they show that they don't deserve to be trusted. But it is more rare than you seem to believe.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
Yes, you are right. There are just people in our circle who have two faces.
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
10 Feb 20
I don't trust someone until I know I can. I feel that if you trust someone and then find out later that they aren't trustworthy, who gets hurt? You do, not them. Trust needs to be earned. What do you have to lose by not trusting someone? Nothing. But by trusting the wrong person you may have something to lose, depending on what you trusted them with. I don't expect anyone to trust me, either - how do you know you can? You don't, only I know that. That's my opinion.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
10 Feb 20
Very well said.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
6 Feb 20
I have a problem here, I trust people right away.
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@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
10 Feb 20
@ZedSmart I know I can't help but trust. then after I failed that's the time I will back off. but sometimes after second disappointment.
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
It"s OK but there should always be a limitation.
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@deazil (4723)
• United States
10 Feb 20
Yes, you do, and I think I've mentioned that to you before. oops, I slipped into "mother mode" for a second there. Good evening to you.
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@RebeccasFarm (86759)
• United States
6 Feb 20
I just dont give it out..rarely if ever
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@ZedSmart (19753)
• Philippines
6 Feb 20
Oh yes better that way when it's really hard.
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