People Come and Go...Even on MyLot
By Arya
@yoalldudes (35040)
Philippines
February 16, 2020 2:00am CST
I miss some who I no longer see. I wonder why they have been inactive. Are they busy with daily lives or are they planning go back here on myLot.
Then I am seeing new ones I just met now and that is nice too. It seems myLot is the same as in real life. It makes me feel a little sad but have to accept that change is the only thing constant in life.
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19 responses
@florelway (23092)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Feb 20
I also noticed that. Haven't seen some of those I used to interact a lot lately. I also observed that some new ones don't stay longer.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
They might be expecting more earnings.
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@sprite1950 (30453)
• Corsham, England
16 Feb 20
I take long breaks from MyLot but the first thing I do when I come back is look for those I was friendly with last time I was here. Most of my favourites are usually still here and I make new friends too .. but as you say everything changes. It;s the way of the world.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
That is good that you visit sometime. Just like in real life we have reunions 
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
Staying connected is even harder as we become older.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
@yoalldudes yes at times because of the things that makes us busy
@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Feb 20
Most newbies leave upon discovering little money to be made or how demanding the site is with all the notifications.
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@besweet (9867)
• Ireland
16 Feb 20
@yoalldudes Yes many people are here for years, and I was also very happy to meet them again after my long break.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
That means some people stay which is good.
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@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
16 Feb 20
@yoalldudes
I have found not only here on My Lot but in my real world people come and go. It is sad. I wonder how they are. You never know why they left here.
@Hannihar (129379)
• Israel
17 Feb 20
@yoalldudes
Unless they come back and explain or someone you are in contact with you may never know what happened to them.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
19 Feb 20
@Hannihar Or maybe you accidently find them in another site 
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@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
16 Feb 20
Yes .here many people have been our best friends and then got lost somewhere
@amitkokiladitya (171936)
• Agra, India
17 Feb 20
@yoalldudes yeah.. sometimes I wish we stayed in contact
@misunderstood_zombie (8142)
• United States
17 Feb 20
You're right that change is something we must accept, but it can be so hard.
@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
16 Feb 20
It's really same as life. You have made an apt comparison. Some active users go missing for a long and then suddenly come back.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
17 Feb 20
Yes and makes me feel happy and surprised when I see them.
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@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
19 Feb 20
@Moon24 It isnt enough for living expenses. But I'm still happy to be here.
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
17 Feb 20
@yoalldudes If they put much effort maybe they would be happy with earnings here. I think mylot is one of the better sites and pay users so i am not sure if they can find something better.
@WackyDecor (306)
• United States
16 Feb 20
I may consider to leave MyLot after having a bad taste with a new moderator here. Four of my postings have been deleted. It is simply the site doesn't like my postings because I put a video created by me but it is okay if I post videos created by others. Isn't it ridiculous?
@WackyDecor (306)
• United States
17 Feb 20
@yoalldudes But promoting others is okay? That's ridiculous. If so, people can ask their own friends to promote other poster's sites.
@GardenGerty (157485)
• United States
16 Feb 20
I find that sometimes I am just on at different times than the ones I used to see. Yes, like life our schedules interfere.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
17 Feb 20
A hectic schedule won't allow for time to myLot. I wonder if that time will come for me too.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
16 Feb 20
I think that is part of reality. But its nice meeting new ones as well.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
17 Feb 20
I wouldnt know because this is the only site I am active on.
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
16 Feb 20
I'm one of those guilty of coming and going. Life does get in the way sometimes of I feel like I have just run out of things to say. I guess sometimes I like to just sit back and be quiet. Then I get the urge to talk again. I suppose it is who I am.
