Can a bully be a good boss?

@indexer (4852)
Leicester, England
March 3, 2020 6:30am CST
This is Priti Patel, the UK Home Secretary and thus one of the senior members of Boris Johnson's government. She has not been in this job long, but she has already caused ructions within her department by falling out "big time" with her senior civil servants, who have accused her of bullying and shouting at people who disagree with her. She also - it is said - makes unreasonable demands of people and gets very angry when her instructions are not followed to the letter - which is often because they were impossible to fulfill in the first place. Things have come to a head because the Permanent Secretary - the top civil servant - has resigned and threatened to sue the Government on the grounds of Ms Patel's unfair treatment of him. One thing to bear in mind is that, in the UK system, civil servants are not appointed by politicians but are career professionals who serve whoever their political masters might be - hence the term "Permanent". They must always be politically neutral and work towards making policies work whether or not they agree with them personally. They should also, however, point out potential difficulties that they foresee arising when the policies are enacted. I have always taken the view that a manager who resorts to bullying and unfair treatment of their staff is a poor manager. I have had a few such people over me in my time, and I have been very careful not to behave like that to people whom I have managed. If you have to resort to such tactics you should look at yourself and consider that maybe you are getting it wrong, not the people under you. Such behavior is always going to be counter-productive because it is not the way to get results. Do you agree?
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@JudyEv (382357)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Mar 20
I do agree and I'm wondering how long this lady will last in her position.
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
3 Mar 20
I don't know how well you are following the UK political situation at present, but it is certainly "interesting" - and I am using that word in the context of the ancient Chinese curse!
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
4 Mar 20
@JudyEv I believe that we are going down the wrong road at present. We should never have left the EU, and the consequences of that false move will become apparent in the months and years to come.
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@JudyEv (382357)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Mar 20
@indexer I really feel for the British at the moment. What a mess it seems to be.
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@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
3 Mar 20
I agree that if those claims are true it would definitely show poor leadership skills. Though an old manager of mine always said there are three versions of every story. Her story,their story and the truth. She must be able to work with others to get to her position.
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
3 Mar 20
She has a history of this sort of behavior in other departments, and it hasn't stopped her from getting where she is. Bullies can certainly rise to the top - Hitler, Mussolini, Stalin and Donald Trump come to mind!
@sh2ker (503)
• Bury, England
3 Mar 20
@indexer Very good point. Though unlike three of your examples she can’t kill her rivals.
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
3 Mar 20
@sh2ker Yes - I rather enjoyed putting Donald at the end of the list - with tongue planted firmly in cheek, of course!
@RebeccasFarm (91297)
• United States
3 Mar 20
I do agree and she is a disgrace to say the very least about her.
@TheHorse (238349)
• Walnut Creek, California
11 Apr 20
I do agree. My best bosses (and this includes band mates who led bands) have always been people who solicited feedback from their "workers," saw us as a "team" working toward "common goals," and did not bully. I try to be that way when I am the "boss" or professor" or whatever. The bullies I've worked with have lost their best workers (or band mates) and wound up...on the sidelines. It can take time, though.
@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Mar 20
If he/she don't bully coworkers he/she can. Especially if it bring good decisions with it.
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@indexer (4852)
• Leicester, England
3 Mar 20
You seem to be saying that if a bully doesn't bully, then they would be OK. But if that was the case, they wouldn't be a bully!
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@mrki444 (15162)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
3 Mar 20
@indexer They don't have to bully against coworkers but they can be bully in some other situations or other people. In this case, they are still bully.