Kindness Goes A Long Way

@CarolDM (203396)
Nashville, Tennessee
March 24, 2020 1:38pm CST
Personally, I have always had the motto, I suppose you could call it, to not say anything if I could not say something nice about a person. After all, where does it get you to continuously talk down someone? My opinion is, it gets you nowhere. Maybe you feel better after you vent. I vent from time to time, like now I suppose. Just a little post to say, be nice. It you can't be nice, don't say anything. I realize this is a public community and we can all say whatever we want, within limits of course. So why not talk about how blue the sky is. How pretty a flower is. Or a food you like. I could go on and on. But I won't. You are all welcome to say what you want of course. Again, I understand this is a public site. Just a reminder that kindness is so much nicer to read about. Kindness goes a long way in life. As some would say. Rant over.
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@LindaOHio (222310)
• United States
24 Mar 20
I get what you're saying; but this is also a forum for debates, conversation, exchange of ideas...and we don't always agree. With that being said...
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@LindaOHio (222310)
• United States
24 Mar 20
@CarolDM I was hoping you could lose yourself in that picture, sitting on that rock and watching the sun rise! Hugs.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Oh I do get that, it is just some days it hits me the wrong way I guess. Maybe I should just take a break... in your picture. Thanks.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
@LindaOHio I did actually for a few minutes, just what I needed.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
24 Mar 20
This entire world needs a little more kindness. Scratch that. This world needs a lot more kindness.
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@moffittjc (128832)
• Gainesville, Florida
25 Mar 20
@CarolDM There are two thoughts in mind that come to me in response to your comment: 1) we may not be able to affect what happens in the world, but we can affect those immediately around us; and 2) every great movement in the history of the world started with somebody taking action on something. So we need to be the kindness we want to see in the world.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Indeed Jeff. I wish we could find a way to make that happen.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
@moffittjc Again you are correct. Thanks for the encouragement.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
24 Mar 20
Yes it is.But we have many out there are hoarders
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
You are so right.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
24 Mar 20
I do try to live by what my parents taught me “if you can’t say something nice then don’t say anything at all”. Im not perfect , but I do try very hard.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
I feel the same way Marie. You are always a bright light.
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@Tampa_girl7 (54715)
• United States
24 Mar 20
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
24 Mar 20
You are right, kindness is needed by all of us.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Thank you for your comment.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
24 Mar 20
@CarolDM You are welcome.
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• Mexico
24 Mar 20
I think so too, if you have nothing positive to share it's better to stay silent
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@Archie0 (5654)
25 Mar 20
True. if you are geneuinely kind then people will also be kind with you, and i firmly believes that kindness goes a long way........
@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
I agree.
@TheHorse (238298)
• Walnut Creek, California
24 Mar 20
In my day-to-day life, I would rather be kind than be Mr Grumpy Gills. But I admit that I use this site to b*tch and moan now and again.
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@TheHorse (238298)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Mar 20
@CarolDM It's kind of like having a therapist--someone who has no connection to the people and issues you're discussing.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
I have been known to do that as well.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
@TheHorse Agreed, a good place to bounce ideas, thoughts and opinions.
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@JudyEv (382019)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Mar 20
Good advice. I notice with the tensions due to NOVID-19 there is a bit more sniping about myLotters as regards opinions on options, etc.
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@JudyEv (382019)
• Rockingham, Australia
25 Mar 20
@CarolDM It's worrying for everyone.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Yes that is to be expected I guess.
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@thelme55 (79308)
• Germany
24 Mar 20
I agree with you. I try to control my emotions because I don´t like to say negative words. I sometimes vent on here or by my husband.
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@thelme55 (79308)
• Germany
24 Mar 20
@CarolDM You are very welcome.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Thanks Thelma.
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
25 Mar 20
So right! I definitely echo the same thought. Don't say something to others or about others that would hurt you if it was said about you. So give what you would like to receive
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@arunima25 (93194)
• Bangalore, India
25 Mar 20
@CarolDM Welcome
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Thank you.
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@Janet357 (75638)
25 Mar 20
this is a public.community but to be honest i cant vent out my personal stuff because people may.judge you. at least some of them. I like your posts. your discussions are always wholesome but i dont mind and wont judge you if you post about personal stuff.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Thanks.
@bbghitte (3498)
• Philippines
25 Mar 20
Thank you for this reminder. And just want to share that we have a very fine weather today and the sky is so blue. Have a good day ahead!
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
You are welcome. Take care.
@Lavanya15 (12888)
• Chennai, India
25 Mar 20
I agree with you. Helping to others is always give happiness
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Thanks!
@AmbiePam (120697)
• United States
24 Mar 20
I hope no one has been mean to you as you definitely don't deserve that.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Thank you Amber, nobody has been mean, just a little negativity here and there. But I can walk away.
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@wolfgirl569 (135690)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Mar 20
I try to but often times what I am thinking just pops out. At least the person I am thinking about knows what I am thinking
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Keeping it real. Have a good one!
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@jrlcentral (2605)
• Roxas, Philippines
25 Mar 20
Nice to see you here, Carol. Yeah we need a little bit of sunshine under this dark cloud of the pandemic.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Good to see you as well. Sunshine is definitely what we need.
@JohnRoberts (109841)
• Los Angeles, California
24 Mar 20
More brightness and flowers and levity needed.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
24 Mar 20
Indeed.
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@nela13 (59367)
• Portugal
25 Mar 20
So true, there is no need to be rude.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Exactly.
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@agwira18 (497)
• South Africa
25 Mar 20
Totally agree
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Mar 20
Thanks!
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