I hate social climbers

@JhovanPH (2672)
Philippines
March 28, 2020 9:59pm CST
I hate social climber people! I have my friend, she is my friend for a long time. But what I don't like about her, is pretending that she is reach and can afford everything. I want to correct her and help her to avoid that because it won't help her to improve her life, instead it will ruin her life forever. Being a social climber is one of the greatest sin. Avoid it or suffer from it. Be True to anyone and be true to yourself. Thank you
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
29 Mar 20
I have always tried to tell people, don't envy those driving around in fancy cars, living in fancy houses, wearing designer clothes and fancy jewelry. MOST of those people are just in debt up to their eyeballs but have no real money. Sometimes the guy in the mediocre house driving that late model car is the one who has the millions secretly stashed in his bank account.
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@porwest (112717)
• United States
29 Mar 20
@JhovanPH This is VERY true. Most of the time the real millionaires are harder to spot. They don't flaunt it. It's part of the reason they HAVE the millions.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
I agree with that.. In fact the real rich I can say are those who has a great mind, heart and soul. I belive with that
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
@porwest while those don't have the guts, looks like a millionaires. How ironic it is.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
29 Mar 20
My brother is like that.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
30 Mar 20
@JhovanPH He is very selfish, constantly wants more and more money and is never satisfied.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
30 Mar 20
@Nevena83 I guess you must talk to him. He needs enough counseling
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Ohh?? What did you do?
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
3 Apr 20
Those kind of people lose their friends with time. You know the truth and how long will you put up with her actions, lies, etc.? Most end up friendless or with someone else playing the same game. It's sad. Stay true to yourself!!
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
I will stay true no matterhow they treat me badly. I will stand on the righteousness. Indeed!
@msdivkar (23356)
• India
29 Mar 20
It is always good to project yourself as you are.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Because pretending will cause more trouble. Haha
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@msdivkar (23356)
• India
29 Mar 20
@JhovanPH You are right.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
@msdivkar do you know someone who is like that?
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
29 Mar 20
I can understand. Stay at a distance.
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
29 Mar 20
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Yes, definitely..
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@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
It is when they think themselves higher than poor people is when they start to be disgusting.
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@yoalldudes (35030)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
@JhovanPH There are people with superiority complex and feel sosyal
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
1 Apr 20
@yoalldudes where in fact, they are lower than others because they cannot accept their self to the way they use to be
@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
31 Mar 20
And then eventually, they hurt feelings without knowing. That's disgusting
@hereandthere (45628)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
is she spending more than she earns and have debts?
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Definitely yes! And she don't want a boyfriend with no cars or motorcycles, she's using her girl. Power to get a boy with cars and money.. Like duh!
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@josie_ (10033)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
The Filipino idiom "Sosyal" is more a connotation of being pretentious. Acting or creating the appearance of someone we are not. Often, it's pretending to be rich. A "social climber" usually is an opportunist who strives to be accepted by the higher class in society. Being an opportunist may often ignore accepted ethical standards but people trying to succeed in life have different paths.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Yep! I really agree with your conclusion. Somehow, people who act the way they are not meant to be. Seems like, they are in a harf situation of accepting the way they are. How sad
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@db20747 (43419)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
31 Mar 20
This is true, no one should live above their means or income. You will pay the price later.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
31 Mar 20
Exactly!! I agree with that. And in fact you are just risking your life
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• Philippines
29 Mar 20
Well, stay away from that kind of people.
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@JhovanPH (2672)
• Philippines
29 Mar 20
They tend to pretend. Less acceptance can lead to social climbing
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