Zen Story: Living with bated breath leads to abatement of realness of living

Be yourself. Everyone else is taken.
@innertalks (23748)
Australia
April 3, 2020 11:53pm CST
The great, and world-renowned Zen master, Zoralie Rispoz, was dying, after a long life of 83 years. His students gathered around his deathbed, waiting for his final breath, as they hoped also that he might impart a final wisdom word, or two too, as was the want of a lot of dying Zen masters. Zoralie looked around. They, his students, all were waiting with bated breath, for anything that he might say. "Harumph," the master said, "Why wait, go now." "My words have never been worth waiting for, nor worth recording. Look at my life instead, and see a sort of perfection in it, as all lives have too. Live your own life, say your own words, stop trying to worship my words, and to copy them for yourself," and he died. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, freeimages.com "Be yourself. Everyone else is taken." Oscar Wilde, (1854 to 1900) the Irish poet, and playwright said this. It is a most powerful message for us all to take on board, as the Zen master, in my short story, was also trying to say this to his students, when he died.
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@akanetuk (2132)
4 Apr 20
The legacy people leave behind is worth more than wealth
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@innertalks (23748)
• Australia
4 Apr 20
Yes, wealth is worth nothing after you die. It is how you lived your life that is your legacy.
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
4 Apr 20
what a great message.......nice
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@innertalks (23748)
• Australia
4 Apr 20
Thanks. I like writing these types of stories with a message.
@Shiva49 (28414)
• Singapore
4 Apr 20
Yes, we are all unique and come with varied talents and passions. Copying another is like trying to fit round pegs in square holes. I had tried to imbibe the good qualities of a few and more importantly tried to avoid imitating the obnoxious few! One who I try to live by his ideals is my father who had great qualities and was not a hypocrite. Then he was inflexible and I knew the pitfalls of such an approach. The best is to find our own path that fits our mental equilibrium and sits easy on our conscience - siva
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@innertalks (23748)
• Australia
4 Apr 20
Yes, it is great to have principles, good qualities, ideals, and rules, that we follow, but, as you said, being inflexible in rigidly following all of these usually restricts us, and creates pitfalls for us in our lives. This is sticking to the letter of the law, rather than growing ourselves with its spirit. We cannot grow ourselves forwards from love when we are inflexible, for love tries to change us for the better ongoingly, and as we change going forwards, we can only change by remaining flexible, agreeable, pliable, to that change.
@innertalks (23748)
• Australia
6 Apr 20
@Shiva49 I have had problems working out my own basic principles, because I had the rigid basic principles of my father thrashed into me, so I was afraid to move past those, and it was hard for me to work out what principles I should follow for myself. Having a patient listening ear, of even listening to ourselves, our inner voice, is relevant here too, I think.
@Shiva49 (28414)
• Singapore
5 Apr 20
@innertalks Yes, we can stick to our basic principles but still accommodate others point of view and give a patient listening ear. This I try to do - siva
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