Back after a year
By ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
Philippines
May 21, 2020 8:50pm CST
Hello, dear co-mylotters! I am back in this site after a year!
Since the COVID19 pandemic outbreak last February-March, I am already home-based, earning little to none, and I am just relying on my salary for the 2nd half of February. I only have my maintenance medications to spend; staying at home though is giving me the very much needed rest, so my heart won't be getting too exhausted.
how is everyone? I read a suggestion here just now that our beloved friend and co-mylotter@ justbhem left us to be with our Father in Heaven. Thatis sad; however, she won't be enduring the pain she experienced with her condition regarding her kidneys. I wonder though how her mother and brothers took her demise.
i am back now, but I hope to be here most of the days because I have some important things to do at home.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
23 May 20
@ridingbet She posted some photos from the hospital, when her boyfriend was not there, her brother stayed on the bed near her sleeping listening musing with earplugs... he did not even heard if she needed help. Poor girl, it is true that we cannot choose our family.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
@LadyDuck really? i guess i have to look in to her discussions again, or read some.
i saw one picture of her in her weirdest sleeping position, taken by her boyfriend.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
wow, nice to read from you again, Miss Anna. yes, I remember Bhem as hardworking as a buffalo, she often thought about how she should share her meager income from this site to her family.
i hope her other and brother have shown their regret for giving Bhem a 'difficult life' here. i appreciate her boyfriend so much.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
22 May 20
Welcome back!
Nice to have you again!
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
23 May 20
@ridingbet 
Hope you are doing good even though we have a lockdown.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
thanks, kabayan. indeed, so nice to be welcomed by our kababayans here
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
@allen0187 yes, and i enjoy tweeting and netflixing always.
i even watch meteor garden again at night.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 May 20
yes that is so true. learning about the demise of a good friend in this site is so heartbreaking since we do not even see each other personally, but just through our discussions.
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@msdivkar (23359)
• India
22 May 20
@ridingbet You are right. I used to have an health conversation with the deceased before her demise here on mylot.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
@msdivkar she and I have had our conversations here through the message box, and yesterday, i browsed over some of our talks.
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
23 May 20
@ridingbet I’m so sorry to hear about your bipedal edema. Does that mean both of your lower legs are swollen? Is it a circulatory/vascular problem or due to your heart condition?
Poor Bhem. She wanted to live so much. I hope she is watching us all. Her boyfriend was so good to her.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
25 May 20
@DianneN it is due to my heart condition. i think i am developing congestive heart failure.
the heart and the kidneys are 2 of the most delicate organs on our body that when they are not functioning well, it often leads to immediate management.
my son talked to me last night and he is bent on having me operated on. i tell him we do not have that much money for the operation
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
thanks, Miss DianneN.
with this pandemic going on, we have no duty and it is giving me time to rest my heart, but i feel sad though, my ailment is progressing. I have bipedal edema now and I sleep always seated, or I should have 3-4 pillows
Bhem is now free from her illness, and maybe she is watching down upon us in this mylot world
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
23 May 20
feel sad for the loss of your beloved friend. My heart felt condolence to her family and loved ones. Her suffering from the kidney ailment must have really drained her. Now she will find solace under the loving care of lord almighty
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
true. she is everybody's friend here in mylot. she is known to be a strong person and she does not give up so easily. her family problems are usually the topics she shared here.
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@jayanth_77 (7180)
• India
23 May 20
@ridingbet yes sharing her personal problem helped her to calm down and find some solace from her troubles.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
27 May 20
thanks. i feel weak now that i am on standby mode and i want to have my usual health back once i am back on duty
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@RasmaSandra (74146)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 May 20
Glad to hear from you and I hope you have a good day.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
22 May 20
thanks. i hope to be able to reach the minimum, which halted last year due to my inactivity.
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@freelancermariagrace (27240)
• Philippines
22 May 20
Nice seeing you here again, Ingrid. Yes, Bhem has passed away. I was really shocked.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
23 May 20
thank you. you are pretty, miss beautiful.
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@freelancermariagrace (27240)
• Philippines
23 May 20
@ridingbet Thank you for the compliment, Ms. Ingrid 
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@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
22 May 20
Welcome back. You're very much welcome again.
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