How You Deal With Mannerless People

@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
June 18, 2020 9:23pm CST
Today I was sleeping in the morning after finishing my morning prayer. Suddenly my phone ranging and the call was from facebook messenger and I got annoyed because this call was from someone unexpected. Recently I applied for a job online and there so many candidates like me also applied among them sent me friend request and I add him as we both are applying for same job same position. Now he always ask me question about the job as I'm the job owner and I replied him always with patience as much I know but today when he called without asking my permission on my messenger I got annoyed but I didn’t react but cut the call as I don't like conversation over call with unknown. But I text him replies guide him via screenshots by controlling my temper or anger. But his questions are not ending so I just sent a last message that I'm not a job owner and he should ask questions to them not me. I ignored the fellow and finally blocked. I really find these people mannerless. Called without permission and asking unlimited questions. Sorry guys maybe I'm over reacting but i'm really very upset on it Thanks for reading Hope you don't have such bad start of a day. Take care all, stay blessed.
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10 responses
Alex Socorro
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
You mean he is also an applicant like you? He has not right to pester you with questions. I see a hidden agenda in his calls.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Whatever finally I decide to block him and now feeling relaxed
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
@Alexandoy exactly, It was my mistake to adding unknown people
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Alex Socorro
@Alexandoy (65302)
• Cainta, Philippines
19 Jun 20
@SHOHANA that is good. Those kind of strangers should not be entertained.
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Adie
@Adie04 (17405)
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19 Jun 20
How do I deal with mannerless people.. For example like online, some people likes to find flaws in my account and state the flaws which I'm not comfortable with. So I ignore them, I block them. Looks like I'm having no manners here too but, it's better. Because I don't want to cause trouble, I don't wish to create more trouble and I would not like to find trouble with word war (talking bad I mean). Being online and being on online earning sites which not often available in my country, are already that hard for me. That's why I like to keep myself staying low.... Heheh, sorry for the long response. Just stating my opinion
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
@Adie04 exactly I don't like to fight with those irritating fellows, it may harmful for my reputation and honour
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Thanks for the long reply if you block them that is not bad manner any more you just answer them for their nonsense activities. At the end I also block
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Adie
@Adie04 (17405)
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19 Jun 20
@SHOHANA heheh thanks for the understanding . I believe that although we try to explain things, some people will never understand. So, I believe ignore and block is the only way. No need to fight more.
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ingrid
@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
19 Jun 20
that man was barking up the wrong tree. i would do what you did too.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Thanks for supporting me, I had no other way to teach him a lesson
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LindaOH
@LindaOHio (222314)
• United States
19 Jun 20
Strangers should not be harassing you.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Well I added for the purpose of same networking, as we both applied for the same job but who knows he will call on my messenger without any permission
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KURASALA RAVI KUMAR
@crafty01 (481)
• Jamshedpur, India
19 Jun 20
You responded to him with patience and finally blocked him, if I would be you, I would have done the same, GOOD JOB.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Thanks ravi for supporting me and I know I did the right as he just deserves it
Raj
@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
21 Jun 20
I can understand why you were so much angry
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
23 Jun 20
Thanks dear for the understanding
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DianneN
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
23 Jun 20
You were very nice to him, but he should not have been bothering you. Glad you blocked him.
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382016)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jun 20
Some people really have no manners.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Exactly and that's why called on my messenger without my permission and spoil my sleeping mood
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Jazon
@holdoors (2535)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 20
Just end the call. No point entertaining them.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
Yes you are right, I'm really very upset for the call
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Jayanth
@jayanth_77 (7179)
• India
19 Jun 20
It's harassment . Good that you blocked him on Facebook. Just image what would have happened if both of you worked at the same place.
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SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
19 Jun 20
I was ready help but his nonsense activities force me to block. Called without any knock or permission, I just want to forget.
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