Rude people need to be loved, What do you think?
By SHOHANA
@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
June 25, 2020 12:21pm CST
Human psychology is something really strange. Something we don't know what do we want actually. We hate people rude to us most of the time and we get angry too. But rude people need to be loved. If you love your enemy he/she will be good to you 99.99% sure. Everything depends on human psychology.
But in the most cases people who behaving rude and quarrelsome because they believe no one loves them and they are alone inside. People alone inside can't behave sweet to us right? They have poisonous mind but they also have a heart which need love.
I also agree there are some exception also can be found, such as some are just born to be rude 
or their arrogance made them rude. Some rude people just feel themselves wise and there is no other wise person in this earth
This earth is full of colorful people. Hope not to meet rude arrogant people in my entire life again.
Love for all.
Stay blessed.
Thanks for reading with patience.
or their arrogance made them rude. Some rude people just feel themselves wise and there is no other wise person in this earth
This earth is full of colorful people. Hope not to meet rude arrogant people in my entire life again.
Love for all.
Stay blessed.
Thanks for reading with patience.8 people like this
10 responses
@TheHorse (238291)
• Walnut Creek, California
25 Jun 20
What you are saying is one of my most basic philosophies. I actually lecture about it in my psychology classes. It's the same with children who are acting out. Giving them extra love and positive attention is more effective than yelling at them (I'm surprised that some teachers don't get this). I'm working an a chapter about this very subject right now.
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@jayanth_77 (7179)
• India
26 Jun 20
Yes some people are very rude. It's best to avoid a confrontation with them .
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
25 Jun 20
We all needed love and care. I agree with you 
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@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
25 Jun 20
@SHOHANA Yes. That`s right. I stay away with rude people most of the time because I`m a sensitive person 
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
25 Jun 20
@m_audrey6788 I'm the most sensitive person but these days practicing holding patience. We are matched most of the time
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@innertalks (23736)
• Australia
1 Jul 20
I agree with you; everybody needs to be loved.
What is rudeness, and how can we best deal with it?
Rudeness is the mind bypassing the filter of love in our hearts, and throwing itself roughly at others, rather than warming them at love's fire; you burn them with logs of rudeness instead.
How do we best deal with rude people?
Courageously love the person still, but not the outer rudeness.
Their heart is the same heart as we all have, but rudeness covers the heart over with spiky thorns, so the rose, still there, is not noticed, the thorns are felt instead.
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@Tierkreisze (1609)
• Philippines
26 Jun 20
Well, rude people are people too. And like other people, they need love and affection to grow and become healthy.
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