Go back to ex or not?
@VanyS97 (104)
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
20 Jul 20
I would rather be single than to live with someone I can't get along with. There's so much more to a relationship than just. ..not cheating,, you know?
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• Germany
20 Jul 20
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@moffittjc (118824)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Jul 20
For the sake of your health and happiness, I would suggest that you not go back to an ex that you fought with constantly. No good can come of all that fighting and arguing. Find somebody who treats you with dignity and respect.
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@moffittjc (118824)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Jul 20
@VanyS97 i'm sure there are many wonderful guys out there for you, find you one that makes you happy and encourages you to pursue your passions and be the best person you can be!
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@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
@moffittjc Thank you so much! I wish you all the best!
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@Fa_Maverick (9464)
• Australia
21 Jul 20
Oh jeez I have asked myself this many times about my ex Bones... that is if he would have me back... I oscilate between f*ck no and: If he seeks professional help for his issues, cuts the sh*t and grows the f*ck up then I would be happy to go back to him. That said I recognise I have a lot of things to sort out myself which I am working on.
Perhaps take a break and figure things out if it's meant to be it will be. Who knows they may be your twin flame.
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@MisisAmparo (136)
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22 Jul 20
No. its not healthy to stay when there is a fight daily. But you can always try again if he/she is faithful.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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28 Jul 20
@MisisAmparo Yes. This is what I learned too. Not to think about that what you say will maybe hurt your partner, but to say it in a normal way and then fix it together.
@MisisAmparo (136)
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22 Jul 20
@VanyS97 Thats good. It would be better to communicate clearly. Stay in love and safe.
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@pandeydeependra (611)
• India
21 Jul 20
It depends on your understanding with each other. Now its very rare to find the partner who understands you and care for your emotion and feelings.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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21 Jul 20
Right, these days it gets rare. It also gets rare for people trying to figure out the reason why being mad and all that stuff. People are way too stressed out and care too less.
@psanasangma (6098)
• India
22 Jul 20
This will be hurtful to me. But again it's depend on person to person because everybody cannot forgive when someone being cheated, accepting the same person is like holding fixed broken glass that can be broken any time
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@CookieMonster46 (13447)
• United States
21 Jul 20
Sometimes it is best to let the EX be and EX
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@lovebuglena (43207)
• Staten Island, New York
21 Jul 20
If two people cannot get along and constantly at each others' throats then it is not a healthy relationship and perhaps is best to not be together. I'd rather be single than in a relationship like that.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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21 Jul 20
Yes, this is right. So might it need a little time to test it, to see if there will still be more happy than sad days
@lovebuglena (43207)
• Staten Island, New York
21 Jul 20
@VanyS97 You don't easily give up. You try to work it out. But if you can't work it out and it is constant battles (hopefully just verbal and not physical) then best to separate.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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21 Jul 20
@lovebuglena Yes, that is right. Fighting yes, but everything needs to lead to something. Happily no physical battles.
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@VanyS97 (104)
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22 Jul 20
Right. So I would say the reasons are still there, but not so deep and bad how it used to be
@EveningPrimsrose (24)
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20 Jul 20
You could consider it yet for me it's like we read the same book where we knew the ending. But in the end it's your choice, do what makes you happy
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