Hello!
@GreatIsabel24 (22)
August 14, 2020 9:31am CST
Nowadays a lot of people is fed by criticism and judgements leads to self doubt and negative thinking of ability because they're afraid someone might mock or make fun of them. But how we really fight with our own inner demons? How to unleash negative patterns in your own self?
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
14 Aug 20
I have been there before. Not like being criticized by people but by me. My inner saboteur always tells me that I am not good enough for anything and that I will always fail at doing things for the first time. All of those thoughts sort of trigger fear, and insecurities in me, what I am currently doing is remembering all the things I have done before that went right, that I have been through and that I am worthy and strong enough!
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@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
14 Aug 20
I'm very glad to read that you conquered your insecurity.
I have to tell you that there is also the other side. It's a pain in the a*se to be together with people who always exude that they're failures. How does one behave in the presence of such people? Do they want to be praised and told that, no, they're much better than they see themselves? I refuse to do that and stay away from them. I'm not a priest, a psychologist or a social worker.
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@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
14 Aug 20
@MALUSE You do have a point and I got it! Let's just say there are two kinds of people the ones who always need to be praised so they don't feel that they have failed before, and the ones who acknowledge their failures but don't get stucked and keep on fighting. Those who keep on overcoming their insecurities are my kind of people because I am one of them! I think it is not about being a priest or psychologist but sympathize and being helpful when others need us! That's the way I see it.
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@pandeydeependra (611)
• India
14 Aug 20
Weak people do this, what others think about you is not important, what you think about yourself is prominent. dont let your to move as per others will and thought. Every one should follow this I think so
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@Debscrochet (1947)
• United States
14 Aug 20
Welcome. When you get older, these things don't bother you.
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@Hannihar (129388)
• Israel
14 Aug 20
@GreatIsabel24
I wish I could come up with answers to your questions.
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@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
14 Aug 20
Im at a constant better, its easier said than done. Music gets me out of those moods or cooking
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@happylife1 (13404)
• Karachi, Pakistan
14 Aug 20
Yes actually we keep our selves hidden from others
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@Huongp (316)
• Vietnam
15 Aug 20
Always believe in ourself because everyone needs their own opinion. That way, our mind will not be wavered by the many streams of criticism. No one is perfect, so we don't have to please everyone.
