Be lost And find yourself again!!!

@jassmine (1460)
Morocco
August 14, 2020 3:17pm CST
This my philosophy in life, we as human beings it is in our nature, in our DNA, we are frightened when it comes to having a little change in our thinking, just because we are not sure whether there is another correct way or not afraid of trying new things .....Sometimes you find yourself not okay, for no reason, you're following the instructions that were given to you, it just doesn’t work for you, not suitable, simply not yours; you know it deep down, but you just refuse the change, afraid to start the journey of your life, to find your path, find your way, find YOU...... Typing is one way to start your own journey, write whatever you got in your mind, start drafting, and then you will be able to manage how to be good at playing white. Just to tell you that nothing is for guaranteed also there is no coincidence in life, you have met some people for a reason, you went through experiences they will give you feedback later on. While I am writing this I know that I am lost, and I just start the journey with you to find myself and hope this will help you find yourself too. I will start from the beginning, I prefer to start in 2014 when I was 18 years old, an adult aware of what I am doing, or in other words responsible for my behaviors.
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
14 Aug 20
So you're 24 years old now. The sentence, "I just start the journey with you to find myself and hope this will help you find yourself too." makes me laugh. 'Self-opinionated' is one of the many adjectives which come to my mind when I read your offer. You could be my grandson/granddaughter. I wonder how you think you can help me *find myself*.
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
14 Aug 20
I am very happy that you laughed lol as I said I am lost too, and just to write so I can understand myself better!!! I do believe that writing can help improve every aspect of my life, and maybe that will help you to find your ways well. again I am very glad to read your lovely comment
@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
14 Aug 20
@jassmine I'm not laughing about your wish to find yourself. That is a laudable goal. Writing can certainly help you to think and see things clearly. What makes me laugh is your conviction that you can help other people - in my case someone who is two generations older than you - find their ways. You should watch out that your Ego doesn't burst!
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
14 Aug 20
@MALUSE I said I hope to help I wasn't certain about it of course, I will make sure not to, thank you for your lovely words
@LadyDuck (458945)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 20
You are so young, I have to agree with @MALUSE that it is a bit "pretentious" to think that you can help others to "find themselves". You are just starting your journey in life. Should I be allowed to go back to my 24 years, there are so many things I would change, every day it's a new experience and you still learn when you are a senior.
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@LadyDuck (458945)
• Switzerland
15 Aug 20
@jassmine I also lived with my parents and my grandmother when I was young, until I got married. I was 20 when I got married.
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
@LadyDuck that was a bad experience for me really!!!! I will share it later
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
sure, learning has no age, I am living with my grandma who is in her eighties and I am learning a lot from her
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• Philippines
15 Aug 20
Sometimes you just need to get out of your comfort zone and explore. Finding new things and learning new stuff might help you grow more as a person. Be adventurous...
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• Philippines
15 Aug 20
@jassmine you are still young. You can do a lot of things
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
that's what I really need to hear. Start a new adventure and be intrepid
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@xFiacre (12626)
• Ireland
15 Aug 20
@jassmine As @maluse says, perhaps you’re a bit on the young side to be helping old people find themselves!! You would do well to read the Old Testament book of Ecclesiastes before embarking on a teaching career, but you’ll learn.
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
yes indeed, we all learn in life
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
14 Aug 20
Hello welcome to mylot. Enjoy your writting here in this site
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@sophie09 (34246)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 20
@jassmine yep! How are you ?
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
thank you for your sweet words
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
15 Aug 20
@sophie09 I am doing well, how is it going with you?
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@Adie04 (17360)
14 Aug 20
Welcome to mylot. I agree to this post, thanks for sharing it to mylot
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@jassmine (1460)
• Morocco
14 Aug 20
you're most welcome