I am AFRAID to...
By Shavkat
@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
September 4, 2020 4:27am CST
...trust anyone. It just made me sour the idea of having close friends in real life. I had so many friends who betrayed me for a couple of times in the past. Perhaps this is the reason why I am not that keen to have the best buddies in the world.
Did anyone betray you?
Do you trust someone that easily?
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10 responses
@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
4 Sep 20
Actually no but I guess it can end up with that frame of mind
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
6 Sep 20
I have been betrayed, and no longer deal with people who are like that. Who has time for that?
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@popciclecold (40215)
• United States
6 Sep 20
@Shavkat If they do it one time, they will do it again.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
7 Sep 20
@popciclecold I agree. Some people won't change especially if it became habitual.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
4 Sep 20
Sigh. Betrayal is the crime worse than rape. Sigh again, people have become egregious that betrayal is a way of life for them. Just look at the demagogues who corrupt the people.
Yes, I've been betrayed, too. Yes, I have detached my self from such creatures because I couldn't co-exist with them. But forgiven them? Yes. I know I have because I have come to pray for them now.
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@eileenleyva (27555)
• Philippines
6 Sep 20
@Shavkat Agree with your decision. We have worthwhile other things, and people to attend to.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
6 Sep 20
@eileenleyva I sometimes felt bad for spending too much time with them. What a waste of time.
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@judithml (423)
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7 Sep 20
@Shavkat yes she must be competing. I dont know why. i do not look at things that way. Besides i couldnt even interest her, until she started to become interested in something else i guess, to favors shes afraid im getting, the ugly thing about this is she really seems to look down on me. Toxic people with sick minds IMO
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
4 Sep 20
I can't think of a specific situation... but sometimes my friends disappoint me, like if i do something nice to them but they are not willing to do the same with me... which is also not right, since one should not need anything in return. So i just try to let it go. 
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
5 Sep 20
i am a trustworthy person therefore i want trusting friends. no, i have never betrayed trust to others.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
6 Sep 20
@ridingbet You said it right. These people who hurt us need to work hard to earn our trust.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
6 Sep 20
@Shavkat yes kabsat, but we Ilocanos, when trust is broken, will have a very difficult time to regain the trust again. it is like a mirror that, even if adhered with rugby, will not be perfect and complete anymore
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@Overflowing (3709)
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4 Sep 20
yes, someone close to me,some not..but forgiving is gain
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