Do you like people to play with your hair?

@Merliva (3540)
San Marino
September 23, 2020 12:08pm CST
I DO NOT LIKE PEOPLE TO PLAY IN MY HAIR because some people are rough and I've hand people do crazy things in my hair before like cutting my hair without my knowledge and as a joke. I've had people tie knots in my hair without my permission and I've had people pull my hair really rough. There are people who straight up don't care because it's not their hair that's being mess with So just to avoid problems, I don't want anyone playing in my hair at all. I really love my hair and to allow people to play with it and risk chances of my hair getting damage I'd totally pass. Would you allow people to play with your hair? Would you allow people to comb your hair? Have anyone damaged your hair?
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@LadyDuck (502956)
• Italy
24 Sep 20
I have visited you island and no one ever dared to touch my hair.
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@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
24 Sep 20
If they don't know you then it's really hard to find someone to do it. The people that did me were friends of mine in the past ...they felt like they had the right to Because we were friends
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@LadyDuck (502956)
• Italy
24 Sep 20
@Merliva Well, that is different, you have rude friends who do not respect you.
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@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
24 Sep 20
@LadyDuck I guess that's why am no longer surrounded by them
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
24 Sep 20
ONLY if it's with my EXPRESS permission. I hate when people express how 'interesting' my hair is and then lead with their hand to try to touch it as it I'm a pet. STOP - it's patronising and RUDE, to say the least
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@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
28 Sep 20
@Merliva Hahaha I'm pretty straight down the line, assertive and don't shy away from saying exactly what's on my mind. I've also been told I have a withering killer look when I'm not pleased It took years to get here, though. Oh, I also cut my hair very, very short and regretted it. Now I'm growing it out and thanks to rice water, it's growing fast. Try it
@Lushlala (4028)
• Gaborone, Botswana
28 Sep 20
@MALUSE Thanks, friend LOL
@Merliva (3540)
• San Marino
25 Sep 20
i honestly need to be more like you, wow i really love your response because you are standing up to them and that's something am not sure i can handle and which is one of the reasons i cut my hair but am now regreting it
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