Not sure why

@GardenGerty (169479)
United States
October 8, 2020 8:20pm CST
Lots of kids, of all ages, are acting out. They are on edge. Everyone from preschool through fifth grade in our school. I have heard there are some behaviors and tensions with the older kids too. I do not know what all of that is about. It is not a full moon. We do not have storm systems coming in. Both of those factors usually seem to bother kids and cause acting out behaviors. I am glad tomorrow is Friday. I know lots of others are as well.
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 20
it is friday here! hope u enjoy the rest of your day
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
My Friday went pretty well.
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@sophie09 (34230)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 20
@GardenGerty niice to know that. happy weekend :)
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@happylife1 (13403)
• Karachi, Pakistan
9 Oct 20
Enjoy your time with movie on Week end
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
I will skip movies, and just relax. Thanks
@Shavkat (141905)
• Philippines
9 Oct 20
Perhaps they are feeling bored.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
I think some of them are having problems with all the new rules we have. That is true of at least one kiddo. There is a particular rule that he very much does not like.
@FourWalls (86713)
• United States
9 Oct 20
Too many kids haven’t had the board of education applied to the seat of knowledge. There’s a meme on Facebook that says, “If you were spanked as a child you’re probably not out rioting.”
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
@Dena91 and @FourWalls I can think of some with that issue. Others will internalize anxiety and run a script of self hate to the point they hurt themselves. I had one live with me, not my child, and it took her until she was around twenty to get going in the right direction. I sometimes wonder if I was too harsh when she was little, but she loves and respects me and treats me like I am her grandma, even though I am not. Of course her mom had different rules for her than I did. My husband often remarked that that did not help. Kids need consistent rules and consequences.
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@Dena91 (17039)
• United States
9 Oct 20
Oh yes, completely agree!!
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• United States
9 Oct 20
i'd give those young'uns a bit 'f a break. they've been sequestered mostly'n their homes with their folks fer months. no tellin' what all 's happened there... many 'dults aint behavin' proper either, such's televised all o'er 'n sadly many young'uns 'xposed to such nonsense. could be a factor, too.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
You are right. Many of them have home "situations". My "four hours in the morning" kid had a pretty darn good day today.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
11 Oct 20
@crazyhorseladycx When you carry a little voice in your head that tells you your are stupid and no good and you might as well give up, it is hard to hear the people around you who think you are awesome.
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• United States
10 Oct 20
@GardenGerty that's wonderful, hon. perhaps they'll all settle soon 'n see school 's a bit 'f a respite.
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@paigea (36143)
• Canada
9 Oct 20
Sounds like it"s time for Friday. So far, I have found students so much more subdued this year
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
Overall, they have been more restrained. That is why Wednesday and Thursday were so "off". Of course I work with kids that have autism and some of the others fall into that group or with other developmental disorders. Those problems break through and stress them and us.
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@jstory07 (148734)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Oct 20
Maybe the kids are scared of the virus. My older great grand children are. They are doing home schooling.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
As a group, especially the ones with intellectual disabilities do not really seem to understand. So they also do not understand some of the new rules and they are irritated by those rules.
@wolfgirl569 (135784)
• Marion, Ohio
9 Oct 20
May be taking longer to get back in the habit of school as they were out longer than normal.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
That and they have come back to a whole lot more restrictions. Some also are in school for the first time. Others have been promoted from elementary to middle school.
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@Dena91 (17039)
• United States
9 Oct 20
I'd chalk it up to it being 2020. Everyone is on edge, not just kids. At least that is what is seems to me. Hope it gets better for you and your fellow teachers.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
I agree wih you on 2020 and all of us being uptight and cross. With my morning kiddo, even though sometimes he has meltdowns, we can already see a decrease in self injurious behavior, so that is good.
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• Agra, India
9 Oct 20
I wonder why and how all the kods can behave irrationally. It can be because they are tired of staying inside the house.
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@GardenGerty (169479)
• United States
10 Oct 20
At school everyone gets to go out two or three times daily. However there are new rules about some of our outdoor time. That was the problem for one child and he does not have the ability to control his emotions.