PIPE in Every Dispute
By Firefly
@cttolledo (5460)
Legaspi, Philippines
October 19, 2020 3:31pm CST
This is one of the interesting topics in my day 2 of training, the PIPE of a person- the reason/s why people fight.
So what is PIPE?
P- preference
I - Interest
P- personal space - could it be physical, visual or emotional space
E- Ego
A simple argument tends to become a big fight once you hit any of those PIPE of one person.
Understanding those things is important to have a sustainable relationship. Knowing the reasons why someone gets mad will easily help you to fix things between you.
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@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
19 Oct 20
haven't heard that from anyone but maybe that is what they mean by "pipe down" .
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 20
@cttolledo It actually means settle or calm down.
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@innertalks (21013)
• Australia
20 Oct 20
I have also heard it said,
"to put that in your pipe, and smoke it,"
when someone is trying to rebuff someone else in an argument.
@cttolledo (5460)
• Legaspi, Philippines
20 Oct 20
Nice.. thanks for sharing .. that's something new to me.
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