Everything will be fine

@Nevena83 (66063)
Serbia
October 20, 2020 1:22pm CST
Good day friends I had a hard day today. Conflict with the father again. I'm fine, at least I'm trying to be strong. It's very cold here, obviously winter is coming soon. How are you all? Have you ever pretended to be okay and just wanted someone to hug you and say that everything will be fine?
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21 responses
• United States
20 Oct 20
Hello - Yes I have felt this way many times before. I'm sorry you are feeling this way now but stay strong and take a deep breath. I know it's not easy for you to extract yourself when your father becomes difficult, but take a breath after each argument and picture it rolling off your shoulders. After awhile it will be easier to let the arguments go.
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@GardenGerty (169477)
• United States
20 Oct 20
I wish I could offer you more than a virtual hug. We can all give you words of encouragement.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
It's hard to always stay strong, it's exhausting.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@GardenGerty Thank you. Nice words are often a real balm for the soul.
@snowy22315 (208945)
• United States
21 Oct 20
Yes, I often feel like I need that.
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@snowy22315 (208945)
• United States
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 I think it is just part of the human condition.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@snowy22315 You’re right, but sometimes it’s hard to fight bad emotions.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Bad feeling, isn't it?
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 I am sorry all the trouble you are having. I just say I am ok and not good if I am not good. Others interpret it the way they want. I want someone to hug me but I know it will not be fine.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
25 Oct 20
@Nevena83 Yes we do for sure need them but hard to get these days with so many nasties around.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Oct 20
Yes, I know you understand me. In order to be happy, we need so little love, understanding, tenderness ...
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
24 Oct 20
@Hannihar Yes, we all need that.
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@Shivram59 (50236)
• India
23 Oct 20
@Nevena83 I'm fine,safe,but sad.Corona has destroyed the festive fervour.
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@Shivram59 (50236)
• India
24 Oct 20
@Nevena83 Yes,everything is stopped.People are afraid to come out and the vaccine in our country is expected to reach us by February next year.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
24 Oct 20
@Shivram59 Here, people less and less believe that the virus exists.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
24 Oct 20
I'm sorry to hear that.The virus has definitely destroyed a lot of things.
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@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
20 Oct 20
I also feel sad. i lost my job and i started to search for another one. It afected me very much.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
I'm sorry to hear that. It's getting hard work again, because the virus will stop everything again.
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@Moon24 (22394)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 It is finance crisis, there are less job. Many people lost their jobs. My friend also can't find any job
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@Moon24 The situation is getting worse every month.
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4 Nov 20
I think u hate snow
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
4 Nov 20
You're right. Mostly I don’t like gloomy weather. I like spring the most. What season do you like?
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
5 Nov 20
@GodServantme Really? Is it snowing there?
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5 Nov 20
@Nevena83 I. Love winter. White Christmas
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
20 Oct 20
I hope that whatever it is gets fixed between you and your father. Think positive and smile!
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@kareng (80243)
• United States
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 I'm sorry. Keep your faith and stay positive.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
The conflict with my father will never end.I miss the smile, I used to always be smiling.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Oct 20
@kareng Thank you for your support.
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• United States
20 Oct 20
i can empathize with how drainin' such can be. how't feels to wish someone'd do jest that.
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• United States
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 'tis a most diff'cult road yer travelin'. figurin' what works fer ya to remedy such 's there'd be no one-size fits all solution. particularly durin' these tryin' times globally. a matter 'f what'cher willin' to give'p, to find yer happiness 'n feelin' 'f self-worth.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Yes, it becomes exhausting. I often feel helpless.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Oct 20
@crazyhorseladycx The problem is that I can't control my bad emotions.
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
21 Oct 20
So sorry you and your father are still having conflicts. Be strong and here are some hugs from me -
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@DianneN (254926)
• United States
21 Oct 20
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Thank you. Whenever I feel bad I come here because you all make me feel better.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
20 Oct 20
I am sorry to hear about your conflict with your father. I had a conflict with my father before but not often. How I wish he is still here on earth so I can hug him again. I hope whatever your conflict is, it will be solved.
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@thelme55 (79324)
• Germany
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 I hope it will end. Let's just hope that the time will come.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@thelme55 He has been drinking all his life and unfortunately he will never stop.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
@thelme55 Honestly, my father is healthier than all of us in the house, we will die sooner because of his behavior than he, because he does not experience stress.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 20
Stay strong. Sorry to hear this. Tomorrow will be a better day.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Yes, today is a better day. Thank you.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Oct 20
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• Santiago, Chile
21 Oct 20
I am sticking to that thought everyday. I am currently working in a new job I didn't know anything about, I feel like I know nothing, and I don't wanna quit, so I tell myself 'everything will be fine' I am deeply sorry that things aren't workin well with your husband. Patience is all I can say.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
I don't have a husband, I'm talking about my father.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Oct 20
@jvicentevalera Don't worry, everything is fine.
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• Santiago, Chile
21 Oct 20
@Nevena83 oh my bad Nevena, I apologize for misreading your post.
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12 Nov 20
Have u tried hunting.wolves in the jungle of serbia
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
12 Nov 20
There is no jungle here, but we have a lot of forests and in some parts we have wolves. A few days ago, wolves slaughtered over 20 sheep to one man.
@Hytton03 (5449)
• Philippines
21 Oct 20
Many times i experience that. Be strong take care always.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
22 Oct 20
@Hytton03 Thank you for your support.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Thank you. Sometimes it’s so hard to be strong.
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@Hytton03 (5449)
• Philippines
22 Oct 20
@Nevena83 yeah i know but i know you can, just think a positive thought. Always pray God will help us. Take care your self.
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@amadeo (111937)
• United States
20 Oct 20
I love to be hug and squeeze going to be awhile.Sorry about the conflict there.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Yes, we all need love, but I think many of us don’t have it.
@moffittjc (128835)
• Gainesville, Florida
21 Oct 20
Sending a big hug your way!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Oh, thank you so much.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
Hugs from here! I hope you'll be fine!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Thank you so much.
@Janet357 (75638)
21 Oct 20
am so sorry for this No, am not a good actress. People know right away when i have a problem.
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
I'm a bad actress too, in fact, when I was younger I was much better at pretending.
• Philippines
21 Oct 20
Yes, I need a tight hug, too. Sorry for the conflict with your dad, by the way. Stay strong!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Thank you. We all need a hug, love ...
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21 Oct 20
I'm doing fine. Thank you. Comeón let's hug it out!!
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@Nevena83 (66063)
• Serbia
21 Oct 20
Yes, a hug would help a lot.