I'm an introvert

@Yakson (94)
October 27, 2020 8:41am CST
My fellow Mylotters, how can I be an extrovert? My life is boring.. I'm always in my room browsing with my phone. I don't have a lots of friends
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15 responses
• Kampala, Uganda
27 Oct 20
You get time for your phone and also for people outside I'm both it depends on the time
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• Kampala, Uganda
28 Oct 20
@Yakson try it please
@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
I'll work on that, Maybe
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Oct 20
People need people, not phones.
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@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
Don't you know sometimes phone is trustworthy than some fake friends? ??
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@DianneN (246334)
• United States
27 Oct 20
@Yakson I don't have fake friends, but a phone is a good way to keep in touch with them during the virus.
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@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
@DianneN Yeah, I'm using the phone to get in touch with them. Thanks for your contribution
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@GreatMartin (23677)
• Ft. Lauderdale, Florida
27 Oct 20
That's your decision--there is a whole world out there--how anyone can be bored I will never understand!! Just seeing what Mother Nature doing makes life exciting. Get out of the room!! And leave the phone there!!
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
27 Oct 20
Me too don't have friend, but i'm satisfy with my life, regarding to you, just go outside talk your neighbor or meet your friends, don't know if this can help.
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
28 Oct 20
@Yakson thank you
@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
Thanks for your contribution. It help
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@tooslow (137)
27 Oct 20
Maybe you need to interact with others lol.
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@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
No matter how I try, I ended up going back to my room. And funny enough, I don't like visitors
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@tooslow (137)
27 Oct 20
@Yakson Just try and try untill you succeed lmao. Dont give up making friends is kinda exciting.
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@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
@tooslow, I don't like fake friends
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@campost (63)
• United States
27 Oct 20
Personally, I think it's one of those things that you're born with. I'm a natural born introvert. I've ALWAYS *needed* my own space no matter what. I need that "recharge time". I try to make friends but my "social meter" runs out VERY quickly. I think if you really want to put yourself out to make new friends, just put one toe in the water at a time and see how it works. Understand that you do NOT need to be with someone or have contact with them 24/7 to be a friend. A friend will understand that you need a "recharge" and will respect that.
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@Yakson (94)
27 Oct 20
I appreciate your contribution. It's helpful and I will try as much as possible. Thanks
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@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
28 Oct 20
Most of us here are introverts and usually are like you who like being alone than being with other people. You cannot be forced to become an extrovert because that is your personality. If you want to be extroverted try going out and be with other people then if you feel uncomfortable about it then it just means you are introverted indeed. Embrace who you are instead.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
29 Oct 20
I suggest you try to make some friends. I suggest you spend less time at home on your phone. The library is a lovely place to visit. I think you are shy so maybe read a book about to become more confident. Good luck.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
12 Nov 20
You need to socialize
@lovebuglena (43059)
• Staten Island, New York
29 Oct 20
I don't have friends either. Those I have are online. I am definitely not a social butterfly.
@Nakitakona (56302)
• Philippines
30 Oct 20
Well it's simple. Don't make your life boring. Go out front your room. Stop browsing your cellphone. Be friendly to find more friends. If you can do that, you'll become extrovert.
@Fa_Maverick (9458)
• Australia
28 Oct 20
Do you need to be extroverted? Are you yourself saying your life is boring or is that from other people? You could always go out and do more just on your own if you prefer your own company yknow that's what I do.
1 Nov 20
It's okay to be introvert, we don't have to be others for gaining happiness. By joining mylot wish you can find joy sharing your thought :-)
• Depok, Indonesia
1 Nov 20
Hello, i'm introvert too. like you. I even felt like I wanted to be an extrovert but I was told from other introverts that you have to be yourself and shine a light on yourself.
• Indonesia
28 Oct 20
just to be yourself, dont try to be another