She is scared to sleep alone

@SHOHANA (16093)
Bangladesh
November 16, 2020 6:14pm CST
Greetings all, after morning prayer I'm here on mylot. Good morning from my side. Last two nights a girl (next door neighbour) asking me to sleep in my room by flooring. She needs no bed and my bed is tiny can't sleep two together. So she wants to sleep on floor as she is scared to sleep alone. I'm glad that I'm brave enough to stay alone in my room even in my apartment. All praise to Almighty Allah that I'm blessed with courage. I think this is common in we girls that we scared at night to live alone inside the room and she is over 20 years and younger to me so this is normal right? Have a blessed day to you all.
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• Shenzhen, China
17 Nov 20
I think most of female are scared of sleeping alone due to lack of safety.I admire your courage for sleeping alone.it is normal that girl fear loneliness even she is over 20.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Yes it is normal, but at the same time I'm happy that I'm brave
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
@jefferson126 she is not a little girl actually, 5-8 years younger to me
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• Shenzhen, China
17 Nov 20
@SHOHANA ,indeed.you are brave.little girl can be brave like you.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
17 Nov 20
What happened to her that make her that scared? Or maybe she's not use to sleeping alone? I have cats, so I don't really sleep alone. Even with cats, I turn on the light. A burglar broke in once. Since then I'm not comfortable sleeping in the dark. Human is always the scariest creature.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Actually her roommate is out of town so she is now sleeping in my room
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
@Adie04 Don't worry we are in ladies hostel and there is tight security
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@Adie04 (17360)
17 Nov 20
I agree with you. I can ignore if like a paranormal things happen, but not burglar. We can fight ghosts, but hard to fight humans especially if male and he's armed.
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@LadyDuck (471717)
• Switzerland
17 Nov 20
I hope she can place a blanket on the floor and a pillow to be more comfortable.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Yes she brings a thick blanket and mat to make it more comfortable
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@LadyDuck (471717)
• Switzerland
18 Nov 20
@SHOHANA You are so nice to allow her to sleep there.
• Peoria, Arizona
17 Nov 20
It is hard to be alone. Nights when I was away from home and in a different house I would have a lot of trouble sleeping, but that is because I am very paranoid. I don't know if I would ever be able to live by myself because of that. I feel bad for her because I totally understand.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Don't feel bad dear because I'm giving her support as much I can
• Peoria, Arizona
17 Nov 20
@SHOHANA That is good
@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 20
good morning. why is she suddenly scared to sleep alone? what happen
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Her roommate is now out of town so she is scared to sleep alone in a big room
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
17 Nov 20
@SHOHANA oh yeah that makes sense
@Adie04 (17360)
17 Nov 20
It's normal. We might be thinking about our safety living alone. Had a story of one of my friend where her nearby neighbour told her daily routine. She thought nobody would care her daily routine work, which road she takes, etc.. we don't realize that somebody will be watching us And worst, had a case of burglar coming to the house after knowing her daily routine, when she comes out of the house, when come back etc. Even I know a male scared of living alone
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
yup I also know male who scared to sleep alone
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@RasmaSandra (80178)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
17 Nov 20
I am glad you can help her but if she does not gain courage she is going to have a real problem I am glad to have no problems in my little two room apartment
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Well my bed is not enough wide and at the beginning I often felt drop down from the bed when sleeping but thankfully now i can adjust
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@thelme55 (77137)
• Germany
17 Nov 20
I hope she will not bother you. Is she sleeping on the floor in your room every night?
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Yup this week long, it bothers in the morning when I get ready for my prayer but I adjust
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@LindaOHio (179683)
• United States
17 Nov 20
I'm always afraid to be alone....and I'm well over 20!
@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
17 Nov 20
I'm glad that you're allowing the girl to stay in your place.
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@SHOHANA (16093)
• Bangladesh
17 Nov 20
Thank you, I'm glad to help her
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
17 Nov 20
I am also afraid, because I often have bad dreams, but I have no choice.