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Stressful Day.

@rakski (156200)

Philippines

November 18, 2020 11:40pm CST

I am just so stressed today.

First, I need to make my son to do some modeling thing for one of his class together with his group (topic: right outfit for specific activities). I need to force him because it is a group activity and I do not want their group grades be affected and I do not want him to be he cause of low grades for the group and also I know that it will took a very few minutes only.

My son is a bit defiant with school works specially speaking in front of classmates or performing. I need to exhibit utmost patience on him but needs to be on top of the game too. So that is really hard and now I can feel the stress on my body like I want to burst some things

to release the stress. My jaw and back muscle are still stiff. Good thing he somehow cooperate. But the process was very stressful. I have to explain over and over again and to make him understand

. But for now, all done.

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@rsa101 (40946)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

Well good that you were able to motivate him to participate in you. I think you can now become a film director for doing that.

. Anyway since you said you're done already then you can now relax and refocus your energy on some other matters already.

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@rsa101 (40946)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@rakski How old is he? I guess he will be more like that as he grows older believe me.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@rsa101 he is 11 year old. He is not matured yet emotionally

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

yes, but the after shock was a real struggle for me. This is the first time I felt that way.

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@DianneN (254949)

• United States

19 Nov 20

Big sigh..... I know how difficult it can be. Rest up and recharge your motors.

. That’s how most of my teaching days went.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

it really drained so much yesterday and I never realized how tensed I was not until a few hours after school that I felt my body still trembling from within

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@DianneN I am better now. and today is another day. With him, it is always a day by day walk through the park

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@DianneN (254949)

• United States

19 Nov 20

@rakski You only want what's best for your son, so it's understandable. I hope you have calmed down and have a happy Friday.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (66063)

• Serbia

19 Nov 20

Oh, I know how you feel. Children are sometimes really difficult.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

My son has mild autism with a bit defiant behaviors

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

22 Nov 20

@Nevena83 yes, patience and understanding and love

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (66063)

• Serbia

21 Nov 20

@rakski Oh, I've heard that it takes a lot of patience with kids like that.

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@jefferson126 (3670)

• Shenzhen, China

19 Nov 20

I completely understand how hard you are.educating child is really huge workload,thanks to patience you had,your baby eventually agree with you.anyway,glad to know you met the goal at last.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

I am glad that he cooperated. It was difficult but I have to see it through

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@jefferson126 (3670)

• Shenzhen, China

19 Nov 20

@rakski ,yes,it's nice you got there finally.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@jefferson126 true, I will still have future struggles for sure

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@piyushbhatia1 (11695)

• India

19 Nov 20

Best wishes to him

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

thank you

@piyushbhatia1 (11695)

• India

20 Nov 20

@rakski welcome

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

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@Cheyee (8352)

• Pakanbaru, Indonesia

19 Nov 20

I get you, because my daughter is also like that. Whenever it comes about making video, she cries because we need to retake over and over.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

He does not want videos. Picture is now more tolerable for him. He used to hate taking photos before

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@Cheyee yes, I am glad it was done and over

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@Cheyee (8352)

• Pakanbaru, Indonesia

20 Nov 20

@rakski ahh ini see. Glad finally everything is done, at least until another assignment

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@LadyDuck (502148)

• Italy

19 Nov 20

It must be difficult for you, you need a lot of patience for sure.

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@LadyDuck (502148)

• Italy

20 Nov 20

@rakski I am glad that he hugged you before you went to sleep, at least you relaxed late in the evening.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@LadyDuck yes, he always ask for a hug or many hugs before sleeping

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

There are difficult moments, that is very true. But my son also makes me laugh so much and when he hugs me, I got to relax. But yesterday, maybe he was too defiant, I did not receive a hug until night time

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@SHOHANA (16093)

• Bangladesh

19 Nov 20

I wish you take some rest and recharge yourself soon

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

thank you. I am feeling much better now

@Hannihar (130150)

• Israel

24 Nov 20

@rakski I am so so sorry you are so stressed.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

24 Nov 20

I guess we all have our moments

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

25 Nov 20

@Hannihar what do you usually do when you are stressed?

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@Hannihar (130150)

• Israel

25 Nov 20

@rakski I have more than moments of stress.

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@NoorNoor (2131)

• India

19 Nov 20

I hope that your son does his best which will make you feel better.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

He tries. I know that but it is just hard at times

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@Shivram59 (50131)

• India

20 Nov 20

@rakski I understand.Almost all children are like that.Parents have to labour hard to help them in their studies.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

that is very true!

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

21 Nov 20

@Shivram59 then good luck to you!

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@Shivram59 (50131)

• India

20 Nov 20

I'm single now,but know very well that within a couple of years will have to undergo the same situation.

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@Janet357 (75638)

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19 Nov 20

I understand you Because that's my complain of my two sisters as well. she cannot Mylot anymore because she is busy with school projects

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

sometimes, that is true. When I am not here in the morning, that means I am busy with them and morning usually is my time for mylot

@yoalldudes (35030)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

I hope you get some needed rest. Take care, my friend.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

thank you. I am now well rested. Morning!

@Shunnan (2130)

•

19 Nov 20

i remembered my niece during their graduation. she memorized it but didn't performed in front

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

aw. there are times like that for them

@m_audrey6788 (58468)

• Germany

19 Nov 20

Relax yourself. It will be ok.

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@m_audrey6788 (58468)

• Germany

20 Nov 20

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

thank you

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@RebeccasFarm (91299)

• United States

26 Nov 20

I am glad he cooperates this is so much stress on you sorry to know it

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

26 Nov 20

thank you. I know he will cooperate in the end but the process before he cooperate stress me out

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@sol_cee (38669)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

In times like this, I want to agree with those who said the school should pay the parents for all their efforts lolll

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

Yes, the struggle is real being home schooled.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

@sol_cee oh yes!!

@sol_cee (38669)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@rakski we deserve a fee loll

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@thelme55 (79311)

• Germany

19 Nov 20

I know that feeling. You can relax now and recharge yourself for the next "battle".

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

True. I now there will be a next battle, I am not looking forward to it but I know I have to do it for my son

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

21 Nov 20

@thelme55 that is true. I am up for the challenge for my kids of course but if there is another way to get through it easier, it would be much welcome

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@thelme55 (79311)

• Germany

20 Nov 20

@rakski We always have a battle in our lives to attend to. It is up to us to manage it.

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

19 Nov 20

Take a deep breath. I have had those moments. I miss my son very much. You are blessed.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

thank you. I never realized I was that tensed and stressed

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

@CarolDM oh yes, that is so true

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@CarolDM (203396)

• Nashville, Tennessee

19 Nov 20

@rakski Sometimes we don't know how stressed we are until we take a step back.

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@sophie09 (34230)

• Indonesia

19 Nov 20

good that he finally wanted to cooperate, kids are like that sometime, like it or not we have to deal with it, just like my cousin

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

19 Nov 20

true.

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@rakski (156200)

• Philippines

20 Nov 20

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• Indonesia

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