Good afternoon Mylot!

@Janet357 (63284)
November 20, 2020 10:08pm CST
How's everyone today? It is afternoon here, Saturday afternoon and so far my day is kinda relaxed. I have not done heavy household chores so no general cleaning for almost two weeks along with laundry. They say that miscarriage is just like giving birth that you need to rest for a week at least so that you will not get this binat. There is no English translation for it . But it means being sick or ill because of tiredness and it is recurrent. When I last had it, I had been ill every night for two weeks. I felt okay at daytime but at night time, I had flu and that was for two weeks. Good thing after a steam bath, I felt so great again. That is what we call binat. How are you my friends?
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@yoalldudes (26509)
• Philippines
21 Nov
You really should take all the rest you can get. Hope you restore your strength soon.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
thank you. But sometimes, it is kinda boring when you are just relaxing.
@Cheyee (4047)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
21 Nov
It's good to do light chores, your body isn't ready for heavy works. I am good and my boy is getting better.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Yes. Thats why I let my house be dirty for a week. How's your weekend?
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@Cheyee (4047)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
22 Nov
@Janet357 nothing special actually. I want to go picnic, but my boy still hasn't fully recover. So just stay at home. How is yours?
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
@Cheyee How is your son now? Hope he is okay.. Am going to the doctor now.
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@TheSojourner (31683)
• United States
21 Nov
Yes, we might call this a "relapse" when recovering. I send you healing thoughts and much love. Hugs. Please Take care of yourself
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thank you, thank you! I learned something today from you. Thank you again!
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• United States
22 Nov
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@LadyDuck (312887)
• Switzerland
21 Nov
I see that @TheSojourner already gave you the translation "relapse", it occurs when someone is recovering from illness but gets sick again shortly after. In your case is surely more emotional, it's not even one week that you had the miscarriage.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thanks for that term. I should thank @theSojourner for this as I really did not know about it.
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@sophie09 (32750)
• Indonesia
22 Nov
good to hear from you. i am doing fine today and i hope to have a good sunday. same to you too
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
What are you up to today?
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@sophie09 (32750)
• Indonesia
22 Nov
@Janet357 nothing much, just stay at home. its raining
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
@sophie09 enjoy the cool weather.
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@thelme55 (57223)
• Germany
21 Nov
You have to be careful with your health. Take care.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thank you. Yes i don't like going to the hospital.
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@thelme55 (57223)
• Germany
22 Nov
@Janet357 Me either.
@rakski (70387)
• Philippines
21 Nov
are you doing much better now? Did you have to undergo D&C?
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Sorry, what is D&C? You know, anything about pregnancy and the likes are new to me.
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@rakski (70387)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@Janet357 so I guess, you did not undergo that procedure. It is what you called 'raspa'
• Pamplona, Spain
21 Nov
Take all the rest you can you need and very sorry to hear what has happened to you it can make you feel pretty down for a couple of weeks.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
true, I cannot help crying everytime this is brought out. the emotional impact is not an easy thing to deal with especially for first time moms.
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• Pamplona, Spain
22 Nov
@Janet357 Know the feeling been there believe me it will all pass just let the tears come up its only very normal part of it and the hurt and all that will go in time. Been there myself long story and more than once.
@Shavkat (96539)
• Philippines
21 Nov
I tried to handle my students online without any stressors today. Take a rest and slow down a bit.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
glad to know it went well for you. No rude students then.
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@Shavkat (96539)
• Philippines
22 Nov
@Janet357 So far, so good. I don't have rude students lately.
• India
21 Nov
Take rest
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
thanks.
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• India
22 Nov
@Janet357 welcome
@kaylachan (7883)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
21 Nov
I think a good English translation could easily be burnt out, or over taxed. People who over do it, tend to make themselves physically sick because of the stress they're putting on their bodies. Typically decompressing, such as how you described, tends to do the trick. We're machines. While we have the ability to self-heal, we need to make sure we take care of our bodies and needs. Making sure to make time for food, sleep, fun, and work are all important. Glad to hear you're feeling better though.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thank you. Emotionally, I never thought that it would affect me in some way. I did not care if I had no kid or what. But after experiencing two months of having someone inside of you growing, I had learned to be a mom. And it hurt when you lost your first baby..
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@kaylachan (7883)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
22 Nov
You're welcome.@Janet357
@Juliaacv (62843)
• Canada
21 Nov
Here people take longer to recover from a miscarriage, it is both an emotional as well as a physical healing that needs to happen. I do hope that you are alright.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thanks. It somehow consoles me to read the bible. And the support of my husband. It consoles me the thought that we can try again after some months. I want to have a child, not because of anything but, I just want to be a mom.
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@Juliaacv (62843)
• Canada
22 Nov
@Janet357 Find consolation as you read the Good Book. You will heal, may you never forget that special little angel that you carried, they will watch over you the rest of your life. I always wanted to be a Mom, I was devastated when our second child passed away due to a heart condition. I am so thankful for our son and for the good health that he enjoys. Having 1 child was not our plan, but the life that we have to lead. We were fortunate that we accepted this-together, and had an open door so that many of our son's friends would come in. Some still call me Momma J. I love that.
@Deepizzaguy (41047)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
21 Nov
I am doing all right working on surveys on Friday.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
More surveys to come. Have a nice day ahead!
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@Deepizzaguy (41047)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
22 Nov
@Janet357 I will do my best.
@Courtlynn (70095)
• United States
21 Nov
Tired, sore, in bed watching tv til i knock. Good day to you
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Are you not going out today?
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@Courtlynn (70095)
• United States
22 Nov
@Janet357 i did go out just now early before my mom goes to work to run an errand but thats it
• India
21 Nov
Take care you need to be more careful these days. Have a great day
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
Thanks Raj. So kind of you to say that
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• India
22 Nov
@Janet357 thanks
@tech40 (22848)
• Philippines
22 Nov
Good afternoon! I hope you have a good day today!
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
same to you!
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@marlina (113480)
• Canada
21 Nov
You know your own body and you will know when it is okay for you to get back to normal
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
I'm taking things slowly because I don't like to have this relapse.
@prinzcy (8840)
• Malaysia
21 Nov
Take care of yourself. Don't force yourself too much.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
thanks for these sweet words.
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@edisondanila (35725)
• Philippines
21 Nov
Good afternoon to you my friend.
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@Janet357 (63284)
22 Nov
How's your weekend Ed?
@Apple111 (222)
• India
21 Nov
Sorry to hear that
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