Good afternoon Mylot!
November 20, 2020 10:08pm CST
How's everyone today? It is afternoon here, Saturday afternoon and so far my day is kinda relaxed. I have not done heavy household chores so no general cleaning for almost two weeks along with laundry. They say that miscarriage is just like giving birth that you need to rest for a week at least so that you will not get this binat. There is no English translation for it . But it means being sick or ill because of tiredness and it is recurrent. When I last had it, I had been ill every night for two weeks. I felt okay at daytime but at night time, I had flu and that was for two weeks. Good thing after a steam bath, I felt so great again. That is what we call binat. How are you my friends?
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I see that @TheSojourner already gave you the translation "relapse", it occurs when someone is recovering from illness but gets sick again shortly after. In your case is surely more emotional, it's not even one week that you had the miscarriage.
• Daytona Beach, Florida
I think a good English translation could easily be burnt out, or over taxed. People who over do it, tend to make themselves physically sick because of the stress they're putting on their bodies. Typically decompressing, such as how you described, tends to do the trick. We're machines. While we have the ability to self-heal, we need to make sure we take care of our bodies and needs. Making sure to make time for food, sleep, fun, and work are all important. Glad to hear you're feeling better though.
Thank you. Emotionally, I never thought that it would affect me in some way. I did not care if I had no kid or what. But after experiencing two months of having someone inside of you growing, I had learned to be a mom. And it hurt when you lost your first baby..
@Janet357 Find consolation as you read the Good Book. You will heal, may you never forget that special little angel that you carried, they will watch over you the rest of your life. I always wanted to be a Mom, I was devastated when our second child passed away due to a heart condition. I am so thankful for our son and for the good health that he enjoys. Having 1 child was not our plan, but the life that we have to lead. We were fortunate that we accepted this-together, and had an open door so that many of our son's friends would come in. Some still call me Momma J. I love that.