Emotionally changes
By Teti ariani
@Cheyee (8362)
Pakanbaru, Indonesia
January 14, 2021 9:09am CST
I noticed lately I get angry so easily. I do have short temper but lately it's getting shorter and shorter. And I also cry so easily. Normally everytime I get upset I just keep silent but now I would cry. I suspect it's because if my pregnancy (but it's kind of not fair if I keep blaming my pregnancy) or maybe because I am getting older and became really sensitive. Either way nothing good comes from my emotionally changes. I hope I can get back to my usual self.
Anyway, the hospital called this afternoon, they said they already scheduled my c-section surgery. It's gonna be on February 21st. Tbh I am really afraid of that surgery. But I decided to safe my concern for later, now I am just gonna sleep.
Good night/ morning to you all.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
14 Jan 21
My first child was a natural birth but then I had a c section in my second pregnancy. You should not over worry. And emotional turbulences is a part of pregnancy.
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@arunima25 (85265)
• Bangalore, India
22 Jan 21
@Cheyee Natural birth is best. But even C section is safe. So stay cool.
@Tampa_girl7 (48890)
• United States
14 Jan 21
I had a c-section. It wasn’t planned. I had complications and it saved my son’s life and mine.
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@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
16 Jan 21
Really? Nothing complication after? How long did it take to heal?
They will open my stomach by using knife, how can i not worry 
@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
16 Jan 21
Uhm... have you needed to have a C-section with your other children? (If I am being too nosy, please tell me to mind my own business. I don't wish to embarrass you or make you uncomfortable talking with me.)
When a woman is pregnant, there are always changes she can't help. Her body changes and her mind changes. Both are caused by hormones from the pregnancy. It IS fair to blame changes like that on your pregnancy since it is the pregnancy causing them.
I'm sure, once you have the baby and you get over the post-partum blues, you will get your old personality back again. 
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@DaddyEvil (137145)
• United States
16 Jan 21
@Cheyee Why has your doctor told you you need a C-section with this birth?
Dearheart, you can't help how you feel. As I said, changes in your emotional stability is driven by the pregnancy.
I hope you don't either, but it does usually happen.
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@Cheyee (8362)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
18 Jan 21
@DaddyEvil doctor suggests it since I want to go sterile.
I know, I just feel since I am in the middle of 30, I should be more mature and handle everything better.
My baby blues is always me being not good enough as a mother. I cried a lot and feeling depressed. I still don't know how to handle it. I just hope it won't get worse later
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