As a man, how do you view women who seem quiet and don't talk much?

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I have several female acquaintances, friends, and colleagues who have been stigmatized as being quiet by those who knew her. In fact, once I got to know them better, they didn't care about being quiet in the sense of being closed off, shy, indifferent, or not talkative. However, there are things that make them prefer silence. In the past, I was introduced by a friend to a girl who works as a Dental Nurse. My friend whispered to me "if you can make him want to talk and tell stories, you are great!" So what? ask me. "She is not only difficult to approach by men, she is also more silent among women," my friend continued. Armed with a whisper from my friend, I was super careful with the nurse. At one point, I accidentally asked about my teeth. Uh, beyond my expectation, it turned out that the topic of teeth was the 'detonator' which succeeded in getting him to talk and 'lecture' me with enthusiasm. Since then my relationship with the "dentist" has become very fluid. From this particular experience, based on my experience with acquaintances, or female colleagues who are not quiet, I have come to the conclusion that their "quiet" is independent because they have a closed, shy, indifferent, or talkative personality. Rather, because the person concerned has not / hasn't found a partner who can compensate for this. Or, because the issues discussed do not attract his attention. Attitudes like ITU, do not like to talk about unattractive or unimportant things, not only focus on women, but also on many people, both women and men. (Src q)