Competing to Oneself is Healthy

@Shavkat (141906)
Philippines
February 26, 2021 10:00pm CST
While I am still working in my previous jobs offline, I never compete with my former colleagues. In short, I just compete with myself because it is a healthy thing to do. Unfortunately, most of my colleagues were too busy comparing themselves to me. I also make it clear that they cannot ask about my salary monthly. For me, it is a rude thing to be asked. Thus, the only person that I need to compete with is myself. Do you compete with yourself? Is it good to compare oneself to other people? Image Credit: assets.entrepreneur.com
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• India
27 Feb 21
You are doing the best way and sometimes we can look at some other persons too for added Inspiration
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
Indeed. We can look up to some people and be like them.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
27 Feb 21
Sometimes, it is good to know what others in the same type of job are making as compared to you. Finding out you are being paid less for the same job is incentive to ask for a raise. Finding out you make more can make you happier with yourself as you are more valued than they are. If you were happy with what you made, then you are fine.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
If they wanted to know the salary, they can just ask Hr. I am not comfortable if being asked.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
@DaddyEvil I agree. The person can only ask for his or her information.
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@DaddyEvil (174208)
• United States
27 Feb 21
@Shavkat Here, HR isn't allowed, by law, to divulge that information.
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@prinzcy (32299)
• Malaysia
28 Feb 21
I compete with myself. If someone asked about my salary, my answer would always be 10K. I asked them whether they didn't notice my Ferrari in the parking lot as well?
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
28 Feb 21
I always do the same time. In fact, no one dared to ask about my salary.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
I think that's the only way to go about it~ i do not really think about it much. but it is hard not to compare oneself to others sometimes.
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@lady1993 (27221)
• Philippines
1 Mar 21
@Shavkat indeed, i think that is the better way to approach things~
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
28 Feb 21
At some point, it is not easy to compare oneself to others. I think it is fine to be inspired and looked up to someone.
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@jstory07 (148701)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 Feb 21
I do not compare myself to anyone else.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
I never did this even when I was still studying at school. I never compete with my classmates at that time, but they were.
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@aureategloom (11025)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
27 Feb 21
that's good. i'm trying to improve myself, but it's not like i'm competing with myself, sometimes i think that's not too healthy either.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
27 Feb 21
I respect your opinion. It is the way how I perceived it.