Friendship backstab! Bullying
By Madan Gopal
@Ambivert (69)
June 13, 2021 1:32pm CST
I thought everyone is equal and everyone should be treated equally and used to ignore all bullying…except one time ..I started to take revenge but destiny took me in opposite direction made me weak before them … while ignoring am totally fine but once started taking it .. lost all my charm… any one faced similar situations in life? It’s one year back story but pain is still in deep… I wish I will forget it soon
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@meowch (2220)
• United States
13 Jun 21
Sorry to hear that. Being bullied is tough. I’ve been bullied a few times in 3rd grade and high school. There is a story I’ve read online which helped me. It’s about creating a different version of your experiences and making the bully look funny or worse. And at the same time you are seeing your experiences like you are in a theater just watching from afar. I think writing how you feel pour it all out on paper and tear it after to release the negativity. I hope this helps.
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@Ambivert (69)
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14 Jun 21
@marguicha Revenge is not always needful..Peaceful flow of life ..I always like it...It allows you to sleep better..This is my observation from past one year
@kaylachan (58362)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
13 Jun 21
The pain won't go unless you learn to forgive, not forget. Pain is a result of holding onto your emotions to long. Let those go, forgive the act, and the pain will go with it.
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@CuriousGab (3251)
• India
14 Jun 21
@Ambivert
Yes,forgiving is harder than taking revenge.you should completely let go of whatever happened in past.
They will have to pay for their actions.you should not feel bad in your heart,just forget it.
@Ambivert (69)
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14 Jun 21
@kaylachan I personally feel that we have to let it go else it will rule us . We can do one thing either it rule us or we rule it..In other words we control it or it controls us....So bullying should be accepted as a child's play...from previous comments @meowch I accepted these words from my experiences too
@Prabhatsingh (3537)
• India
14 Jun 21
It's okay.
Even I have been bullied my whole life.
And certainly, there has been a time when I have bullied somebody.
it happens without one's knowledge.
All you can do is to make sure that the future generation never gets to know about it or is kept away from bullying altogether.
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@Ambivert (69)
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14 Jun 21
@Prabhatsingh Yes , I will take your words..Thank you
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@Belexhanns (3431)
• Kampala, Uganda
13 Jun 21
I hate bullying and I couldn't tolerate it when I was in highschool
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@Ambivert (69)
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14 Jun 21
@Belaxhanns but it is there always everytime...The thing is our success is the answer to them .But don't choose things keeping those comments in mind..sometimes it might help sometimes not..It's my thought
