The Other Thing About That Educator That Annoyed Me....Part 1
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
Perth, Australia
June 27, 2021 7:09am CST
In my last post, I spoke about how an educator at the childcare centre was so unkind towards the children. Including telling them to their faces how she wished she "could kill them." I will attach that post here in case you wish to read it.
Now I wanted to talk about how she was towards me and another student. I observed that this educator (again who I will call Miss D0uche Nozzle). Pretty much from day one she spoke to me like I was dirt. She often spoke to me in a patronising way. Whenever I was being kind to the children she would tell me strictly not to talk to them. Whenever a child was crying and wanted a hug, I would hug them and try to figure out what was wrong she would say in a strict and b*tchy tone "Put them down! Just ignore him / her!" She never offered me if I wanted morning tea or afternoon lunch (I was allowed to have some as told by everyone else who worked there). But every time with Miss D0uche Nozzle, she'd offer the other educators in the room if they wanted some food but never asked me.
She was never asking me kindly to do things. It was always "Clean up that area." "Bring in the lunch." "Pick up the toys from the floor." And she NEVER thanked me. Ever. But when she spoke to staff, "oh thanks for that." So I learned she is capable of thanking people, just not with people who are learning to be an educator. Same with another girl who was in my position, Miss D0uche Nozzle spoke that way to her too. I could see this other student was miserable just like myself being around this horrible woman.
I would do everything this woman asked of me and used my own initiative. I would clean up without being asked yet she would still hover over me and be like "Danielle could you tidy up this floor." What the hell did it look like I was doing?
So was pretty much smiley and nice towards parents (meanwhile these parents have no clue how she REALLY treats their children), she smiles with other staff members but with newbies or students, she's stone faced, cold, and rude.
But what really ticked me off was the last day! Which I will explain in part 2.
In case you want to read this one:
So was pretty much smiley and nice towards parents (meanwhile these parents have no clue how she REALLY treats their children), she smiles with other staff members but with newbies or students, she's stone faced, cold, and rude.
But what really ticked me off was the last day! Which I will explain in part 2.
In case you want to read this one:
Hey sweet MyLotters. I've hardly been on which I hate. I've been very busy getting work done for my childcare course. It was quite a lot of work so had many...
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
27 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13
I think now I remember you telling us about her. I did not understand completely when read you first post of the obstacle course business. That is horrible that she said that to the children. She should be reported and thrown out. She is not a good educator and what she said to you is not good either.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@Hannihar I completely agree with you. She's just nasty and thinks she has a right to be horrible to others. It's sickening really.
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@Hannihar (130150)
• Israel
16 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13
There is no excuse for her behavior towards those the kids and towards you. She must be very miserable or maybe she is just nasty.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@Hannihar My feeling is that she thinks that just because she's been doing this job for such a long time that she has a valid excuse for being the way she is. Unless, like you said, she's just a nasty person, I'm unsure. Either way, there is no excuse just like you said. I agree with you.
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@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
2 Jul 21
that is bad, that whole station thing in education is a very bad reality.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@DocAndersen I agree with you! 

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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
17 Jul 21
@DocAndersen 
Out of curiosity, what is one of your least favourite phrases to be told? Or is that too much of a deep question?

Out of curiosity, what is one of your least favourite phrases to be told? Or is that too much of a deep question?1 person likes this
@DocAndersen (54399)
• United States
16 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13 my second favorite phrase (you are right is my favorite)!
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@moffittjc (128837)
• Gainesville, Florida
27 Jun 21
What a horrible excuse for a human being! You're name for her is very appropriate, given your description of her actions.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@moffittjc I'm only using that name as I cannot swear but I'm sure you'll believe me when I say I have an even more appropriate name for her. Just can't say it here. 

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@moffittjc (128837)
• Gainesville, Florida
22 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13 I would have called her a C-U-N-T to her face! And I don't throw out words like that very often, but when it comes to kids, I have a soft place in my heart. No one dare treat them like that when I'm around.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 21
@moffittjc whooooa! Just WHOA! I wish you could have seen my reaction to reading this.
I was not expecting anything like that! Though, at the same time, it's how she did make me feel. I don't even think of that word often either but when someone is being one, that word creeps in and someone like her deserves it.
I was not expecting anything like that! Though, at the same time, it's how she did make me feel. I don't even think of that word often either but when someone is being one, that word creeps in and someone like her deserves it.1 person likes this

@JESSY3236 (22244)
• United States
31 Aug 21
My uncle was a elementary school principal and he would have fired that teacher. Although I did read some of notes from teachers in his past that said he was rude to them.
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@JESSY3236 (22244)
• United States
7 Sep 21
@VivaLaDani13 no he treated my mother fine. It is mainly me. He wasn't exactly mean, but he did make me feel small.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
31 Aug 21
@JESSY3236 I hope she is fired by now. Do you believe what the notes said? I mean, do the notes sound like something your Uncle would do / say?
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
3 Sep 21
@JESSY3236 I am almost certain you've spoken about your Uncle to me once. Regarding how he treated your mum? Do I have this right?
I am sorry for his behaviour either way. I am glad to know he softened up even if it was just a little bit.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@CarolDM Thank you for that. Thankfully I won't see her again and hopefully when I get a job in childcare I won't have to deal with another educator like her.
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@CarolDM (203396)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13 I hope it is all behind you now.
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@Butterfingers (66603)
• India
27 Jun 21
Horrible woman. I hope kids parents know how she's behaving with them
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@Butterfingers For sure! I really hope so too! Children deserve much better than that horrible woman!
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
17 Jul 21
Having being used to people like that before not saying who or where but they do not make for a good atmosphere.
You just be yourself not mind about her all you can not everyone is the same as her i wonder how the heck they get a job like that in the first place?
Yes she can get you narked but that is not forever so you just think about your future job and tell her knickers to her.

That is what I would be saying to her three big raspberries super big ones.


That is what I would be saying to her three big raspberries super big ones.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36847)
• Pamplona, Spain
18 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13
By the way knickers to her is just an expression of where I come from not bad words at all its a I could not care less don´t give a fig.
That´s my girl you stand up to those people all you can.
Even some times you have to swallow a few here and there you can be yourself they are nobody to talk to you like that.
Maybe when they were small they never heard nice words or love around them there is that too sometimes it is that way.
Oh yes had to put up with people like that where I worked in a few jobs I did not say anything to them as I needed the cash but I was giving them the two fingers sign in my head you can bet on it.


As they say in Spain "hay que saber capear", you have to know how to handle them but I really hope and wish you don´t meet up with anymore like that God what a joy killer for sure.
Just a relief there are not too many of them around thank God.




As they say in Spain "hay que saber capear", you have to know how to handle them but I really hope and wish you don´t meet up with anymore like that God what a joy killer for sure.
Just a relief there are not too many of them around thank God.


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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
19 Jul 21
@lovinangelsinstead21 "I was giving them the two fingers sign in my head." 
Oh I understand that completely!
You're such a great person and give great, supportive advice. I thank you so so much! 
I really do. Thank you.

Oh I understand that completely!
You're such a great person and give great, supportive advice. I thank you so so much! 
I really do. Thank you.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
18 Jul 21
@lovinangelsinstead21 I completely agree with it not being a good atmosphere. All I could think about was wanting to go home when being around this woman.
I love your advice. Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to give me understanding and supportive advice. Though I won't see this person again, that advice is still relevant to me for in the future. Thank you. 

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@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
24 Jul 21
You are on the lowest rung of the ladder. Pretty often those who are "trainee", "intern" get treated like that. It is not ethical and neither is it common. It pretty much depends on who the "Trainer" or in your case "educator" is. They just couldn't be bothered. OR, some just has this mindset that a "tough hand" is needed to "prepare" trainees for their future jobs. Whatever!
It doesn't change the fact that a basic human decency and respect to your colleague (regardless of their job position) must be there in every field of work or study. But you would be hard pressed to find it. There is always some kind of heirarchy exisiting.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
21 Aug 21
@Daljinder I agree with you. It's not ethical but it's very common which is a shame yet, not surprising. It's a horrible way to be really.
All very true, well said DJ! 



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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
13 Nov 21
@Daljinder 100%!
Well right now....Anxiety is back in about the next step. I know I was nervous about doing the course (I'm nervous about anything new that involves other people or where I have to show my brain - meaning me in general and if I can do work etc etc) but I am proud of myself for doing the work, completing the course but now anxiety is back in for next step.
I'm seeing a psychologist but not opening up like I would like to as I only have 6 sessions with her. I appreciate it as it's through the job provider place but I wish governments thought thoroughly about these things. With all due respect but people suffering with depression and anxiety don't feel good being left / abandoned when bonding with someone who is helping them especially mid-way through.
Well right now....Anxiety is back in about the next step. I know I was nervous about doing the course (I'm nervous about anything new that involves other people or where I have to show my brain - meaning me in general and if I can do work etc etc) but I am proud of myself for doing the work, completing the course but now anxiety is back in for next step.
I'm seeing a psychologist but not opening up like I would like to as I only have 6 sessions with her. I appreciate it as it's through the job provider place but I wish governments thought thoroughly about these things. With all due respect but people suffering with depression and anxiety don't feel good being left / abandoned when bonding with someone who is helping them especially mid-way through.1 person likes this
@Daljinder (23193)
• Bangalore, India
9 Nov 21
@VivaLaDani13 All in all a Good Riddance to her since you are done with it. What do you plan to do now? What's going on in your mind?
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@Nakitakona (59987)
• Philippines
27 Jun 21
I do agree with why name her D0uche Nozzle. It appropriately applies to her fault finding attitude.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60812)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jul 21
@Nakitakona I agree with you for sure. I honestly don't know how to spell her actually name but I'd rather call her by how she is. And even then I'm still being nice with what I'm calling her. 

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