So she said to the children "I wish I could kill you right now."
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
Perth, Australia
June 10, 2021 7:56pm CST
Hey sweet MyLotters. I've hardly been on which I hate. I've been very busy getting work done for my childcare course. It was quite a lot of work so had many sleepless nights and was being a good girl not getting distracted with MyLot! I'm very happy to announce, I am done with my Prac. (doing practical work in a childcare centre).
But I must vent about an educator at the childcare centre I was at. I don't know how to spell her name so we can call her Miss D0uche Nozzle.
Miss D0uche Nozzle gave me major anxiety. She hardly smiled. Like to anyone. Her tone towards me and another student was woeful and the way she treats the children really p*ssed me off. And before I tell you the story and before you say, I have already addressed this with my teacher and we are discussing what I should do about it.
I will make another post later regarding how Miss D0uche Nozzle treated me but I will just tell you about the children for now.
Miss D0uche Nozzle, she's been an educator for many years. And yes, I can understand in my short amount of time how overwhelming and stressful it can be in a room full of children. Especially toddlers! But what I witnessed and heard was unacceptable. I do not care what the excuse was! And @DocAndersen this is the story I've been meaning to tell you, I'm sorry it wasn't done sooner.
This woman doesn't play with the children, hardly interacts with them, and speaks to them like they are dirt. But what made it worse was these three different occasions.
*One - 10 children in the room, mixture of toddlers and kindy. A toddler was crying. Miss D0uche Nozzle was annoyed by it, and she said to the child, and I quote "I wish I could kill you right now."
*Two - About 8 children, mixture of toddlers and kindly. They were being....ya know, children, having fun. The cook comes in to see if more food was needed for morning tea and Miss D0uche Nozzle says to her, "Help me before I kill them."
*Three - 5 - 6 children. Toddlers and Kindy, Miss D0uche Nozzle says to a toddler, like literally right to the poor little thing's face, "I wanna kill you."
Now, I don't care if she actually isn't a killer and this was her way to express her stress. NO ONE should be saying this to an innocent child!
And she wonders why the children don't want to go near her! 
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 She is horrible, she is going to stress and bully those little kids, I think she must be reported.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 21
@LadyDuck For sure! There had been quite a handful of occasions a certain child was crying and wanted cuddles from me and not that educator. There was even a time when the same child was cuddling me and the educator said to another "Danielle hasn't been here that long and the children are always wanting cuddles from HER." I'm sitting right there listening to this. Such an aggressive jealous tone. If she didn't have that awful attitude then children would want cuddles from her.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@LadyDuck I'm still talking to my teacher about it. I'm just feeling like I'm in a real difficult position. But I do know I want to do something. I would be surprised if others didn't report her as I know of at least another 3 people who work there who would have also heard it. She's so horrible.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
11 Jun 21
Honestly, that is why i founded my teaching society many years ago. To work around teachers like that. once burnt out, it is really hard to bring a teacher back.
so we set up a forum and helped them by talking through the issues. it helped, but I moved on from teacher so it disbanded.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@DocAndersen I remember you talking about it and I admire it so much. I just can't put my finger on it if she is burnt out or just in the wrong profession as she's also stated so doesn't "put up with her own 10 year old son's BS." Though BS to her seems to be when a child is having fun. I don't know. I just know she really shouldn't be there.
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@DocAndersen (54413)
• United States
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 sadly it sounds more the latter than the former (sorry I love to say that). Sometimes, you can't save teachers from themselves.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
7 Jul 21
@TheHorse You are spot on! 100%!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@prinzcy I agree with you so much. I don't get it and I don't get her.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 I hope that the kids can tell their parents,
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 21
@marlina I really hope so too. And I really hope they are believed rather than the parents assuming the children heard wrong or are "imagining it."
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@marlina Your comment is 100% agreeable. If I was a child going there, I'd be anxious every time with that woman there!
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@just4him (306239)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 Even empty threats have real issues behind them.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
23 Jun 21
@just4him That's right. Well said!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 21
@just4him I completely agree with you. Those poor children shouldn't have to be putting up with that attitude or those threats. Even if they are empty threats.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@spiderdust Not that I am aware of. I'm hoping so. The more reports she gets, the better chance she can get away from those children.
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 21
@spiderdust I will be discussing reporting her again when I see my teacher. Hopefully Monday.
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
15 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 If you witnessed this, you should definitely report it!
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@GardenGerty (157551)
• United States
11 Jun 21
That is totally wrong and scary, really.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@GardenGerty Agree with you 100%. It turned my stomach every time I heard her.
@kaylachan (57670)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
11 Jun 21
Makes me wonder why those weren't recorded and documented and her position termenitated. You don't speak that way to children, ever. There's no excuse for it. She's in the wrong profession if she's going to be like that.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@kaylachan Very well said! She shouldn't be there and those children shouldn't have to put up with her.
@moffittjc (118442)
• Gainesville, Florida
11 Jun 21
This lady needs to be removed from the situation immediately, and not be allowed anywhere near children until such time as she gets mental counseling or something. That is horrible what she has been saying to the children.
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@TheHorse (205760)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13 Being "validated" is one of little ones' favorite things! "Tell me about your scribble scrabble dinosaur! I see green, and yellow, and..."
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@moffittjc Hey! 
Yeah I agree with you. I feel awful for the children. Whenever they wanted to tell her something or show her something, she showed very little to no care about it. It's sad.
Yeah I agree with you. I feel awful for the children. Whenever they wanted to tell her something or show her something, she showed very little to no care about it. It's sad.2 people like this
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@CarolDM haha thank you. I was worried it was too offensive for some people but it's still way better than my actual name/s for her. 
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 I can only imagine.
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@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
11 Jun 21
That's horrible it sounds like she needs to be terminated to often they come unhinged and end up physically harming the child or worse...
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@Michellekidwell That is exactly what I am worried about as she is already quite rough with the children when trying to make them sit or move to a different location. She cannot kindly hold onto their hands. She grabs their hands and drags them. 
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
16 Jun 21
@Michellekidwell Definitely. She shouldn't be there at all.
@Michellekidwell (29260)
• Sonora, California
15 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 That’s definitely not good, it sounds like sew needs to be terminated.
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@TheHorse (205760)
• Walnut Creek, California
7 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13 As I mentioned in another comment, I'm pretty sure you can. Anonymously.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@Nevena83 I agree. I wonder if I can do that anonymously. Actually....thank you for your answer. Maybe I could do this....
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 Yes, you should definitely do that.
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@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
11 Jun 21
That's just disgusting. I'm sure the parents of those kids would take a minute to kick her A$$ knowing about this
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@Butterfingers Well said! I know I would be so annoyed if I had a child and he / she was being spoken to like that!
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@Gguusia (401)
• Poland
11 Jun 21
It is very good that you write about such situations. This is unacceptable especially when it comes to looking after children. Someone like that should not work at all, in any educational, care or upbringing institution. This person should be reported and removed from there, because the children will be traumatized.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@Gguusia I so agree with you. I feel sorry for the children. I worry they are scared of her. They don't exactly show much enthusiasm being near her. I don't blame them.
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@popciclecold (35103)
• United States
11 Jun 21
Sounds like she's in the wrong business. Everyone is not a teacher, she definitely not. Might make a good cop.
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@popciclecold (35103)
• United States
14 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13 Thsnk you, have a great day.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@popciclecold A cop makes more sense than what she's doing now! Well said!
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Rightly said.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
6 Jul 21
We had a teacher in the infants school that would pick us up out of our chairs and shake the living daylights out of us yet here we are today.
I feel sorry for the children she says that to just no way that should happen at all.
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@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
7 Jul 21
@VivaLaDani13
Yes they really need one.
She used to pick you up and shake you till your brains rattled in your head if you got an answer wrong.
However we were quite resilient even then.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
7 Jul 21
@lovinangelsinstead21 That is awful. I wouldn't do that to a child even for big amounts of money. I'd rather not scare a child or hurt them in any way.
I wouldn't do that to a child even for big amounts of money. I'd rather not scare a child or hurt them in any way.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
7 Jul 21
@lovinangelsinstead21 Oh my goodness! That sounds awful! 
I feel like people need a real mental health check before joining a certain profession which is to look after others.
I feel like people need a real mental health check before joining a certain profession which is to look after others.1 person likes this
@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@franxav Absolutely! I hope she gets fired to be honest.
@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
27 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13
She sounds like a nightmare. That is a horrible thing to say and how she treated you was so horrible. She should not be in that position and it sounds like she is burnt out and should retire or do something she is suited for but not that.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
27 Jun 21
@Hannihar Thank you for that Hanni. She really is someone I hope to never see again.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
28 Jun 21
@VivaLaDani13
You are welcome and I hope you never do have to lay eyes on her again.
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@jefferson126 (3051)
• Shenzhen, China
11 Jun 21
The lady is mad or she had other problem,how can she say such awful words to kid.in my opinion,she don't fit for a educator,he don't have a kind heart.maybe her words wii bring kids shadow inside.i think she ahould be replaced by someone kind.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
14 Jun 21
@jefferson126 Well said, I completely agree with you!
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@Treborika (17262)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
I am very sorry to hear this. I think this must be handled by the police
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
24 Jan 23
@Treborika I've no idea what happened to her. I hope she got fired.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60355)
• Perth, Australia
24 Jan 23
@Treborika She sure does deserve it so I hope she did get fired.
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@Treborika (17262)
• Mombasa, Kenya
24 Jan 23
@VivaLaDani13 I bet she deserved that
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