I don't expect for everyone to like me!!!

@Rashnag (30594)
Surat, India
June 28, 2021 12:43am CST
Hi guys, Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. I no longer care or expect for everyone to like me. Priorly in life I was very concerned for everyone to like me but not anymore. As we age, we grow and hence understand that it's not important nor necessary for everyone to like us. Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!
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@Aansh13 (11251)
• New Delhi, India
28 Jun 21
Well, we can't really please everyone around... I think it's okay if people don't like us....
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
28 Jun 21
I always realised it very early in my life and I never try to please anyone with my actions. I do what I like and don't care if others would be happy with me or not that's their choice.
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@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 21
Wow, your wife must be so hurt. You never do anything to please her at all?
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@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
28 Jun 21
@sjvg1976 That shows you are not a good husband.
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
28 Jun 21
@Jlyn10 sometimes she gets hurt .
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@allknowing (130233)
• India
29 Jun 21
That's hisotry in my life too - wanting everyone to like me. It is strange that many a time one is not liked for the good qualities one possesses.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
29 Jun 21
True indeed
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@jstory07 (134752)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Jun 21
I hope you have a few good friends that like you.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
28 Jun 21
Yes dear I have. Not few, but many
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@jstory07 (134752)
• Roseburg, Oregon
28 Jun 21
@Rashnag That is always good.
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@jiwonnie (443)
• Philippines
28 Jun 21
I wish to have the same mindset as you. I know this is the right thing to go about life, but I can't help but care when someone hates me or something. It makes it hard to sleep at night sometimes.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
28 Jun 21
I know that feeling dear. I have developed it over a period of time. You can keep trying. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day
@FaruMesh (3508)
• India
28 Jun 21
@jiwonnie we can't please ourselves sometimes so forget about others
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29 Jun 21
That is true.. In my younger year I was so jolly to everyone but not everyone do the same as mine.. When I got older I realize that having less is better
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
29 Jun 21
Ok dear. Thanks for sharing. Have a good day
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30 Jun 21
@Rashnag You too.. Don't worry much about it
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@snowy22315 (170787)
• United States
28 Jun 21
it's nice to be liked and not really pleasant if we are not..but it's part of life and not something we can stress over. It is naiive to think everyone is going to like as..(as perfect as we might be..)
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@prashu228 (37525)
• India
28 Jun 21
Yes as we age we get to know the priorities of life. We can't please everyone that's impossible
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@RebeccasFarm (86905)
• United States
28 Jun 21
Oh no one likes me in reality I am too outspoken and determined
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@pitsipeahie (4362)
28 Jun 21
Never expected that anyway because it’s just impossible. How nice it would be if everyone will just like you but nope that’s not how life is and you gotta learn to deal with it. Unrealistic expectations such as that will only bring negative feelings to yourself, dissatisfaction and worst even depression.
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• India
28 Jun 21
Yes that's fine and we cannot please everyone
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• Hong Kong
28 Jun 21
I realized that when I was growing up
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28 Jun 21
You are absolutely right, it's not necessary that everyone like us always, but we should keep positive approach. I like your post, take care friend, keep smile on your face. Have a nice dream sleep.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
29 Jun 21
Your welcome