How to adjust our attitude to face life bravely if we loved ones who couldn't accompany us?

China
August 22, 2021 2:06am CST
I don't know how to describe the thing, I don't know how to face my life,It's impossible for me to live with him, however we have many similar interests,such have a dream,like to sing, with good mentality for life, but the trust is that it's impossible for us to live together,because we couldn't live in the dream, we should face the real life. I don't know if I can have the brave to see he marry a another one, I guess I will be very sad and sad, now I want to give up, if I love him,maybe I should learn to release,then put him into my heart deeply till I am getting older and older,I will be very sad when I think about this, and I plan to do it,however I really sad. Even I don't know how to do to let my mood be more calm down,my friends,could you please give me some suggestion?Thank you so much.
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7 responses
OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86731)
• United States
22 Aug 21
Yes we must always be brave in the face of it
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Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
22 Aug 21
I understand love couldn't be reluctanted, if he loves me,he should understand it is hard to say to leave, I don't know what changed now.
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OceanTiara
@RebeccasFarm (86731)
• United States
23 Aug 21
@bettydeng5 I am so sorry anyway
Judy Evans
@JudyEv (325584)
• Rockingham, Australia
22 Aug 21
Sometimes they say to make a decision and if you then feel very unhappy about it, it is the wrong decision and you should change it.
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Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
22 Aug 21
Actually I am not happy if I really make a decision,however I don't want myself to suffer emotion attack, somettimes I am happy, later I will be more sad, I couldn't control my emotion completely.I really don't know what I can face now,thank you.
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Simone
@Janet357 (75656)
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22 Aug 21
even if we suggest something, only yoi can decide for your life. You will still do what your heart wants to do. Trust me, I had been there.
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Raj
@Butterfingers (66585)
• India
22 Aug 21
It's difficult but if he doesn't like you, better to leave him
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Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
22 Aug 21
Thank you Raj, yeah,it is difficult now.
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Belex Hanns Abel
@Belexhanns (3431)
• Kampala, Uganda
22 Aug 21
It depends on how he treats you, if he doesn't care; then better you leave him
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Amelia Das
@Anqaya (3033)
• United States
22 Aug 21
If he doesn't cares about you and makes you sad and feel you are not his worth, no matter how many similar interests you have. It's better to leave him.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
22 Aug 21
I understand that it is really hard to forget someone you love so dearly but he don`t love you back the way you want him to be. Better to forget him as much as you can or else it will hurt you more and more.
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simplyme
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
23 Aug 21
@bettydeng5 I hope you will try to forget him.
Betty Deng
@bettydeng5 (1822)
• China
22 Aug 21
en, it is no chince but to leave, however Sometimes the memories will appear at the brain at any time, and it will affect my emotion,it is very difficult for me now.
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