Anger is the punishment we give ourselves for someone else's mistake!! Try to stay calm!!

@Rashnag (30597)
Surat, India
September 20, 2021 1:13am CST
Hi guys, Hope you all are doing good. I am doing good too. When I say this I am not being preachy or anything. I too get angry at times but have realised it's futile over a period of time. I have improved in that emotion I guess. I have seen and heard many people getting angry over little things or upset about it. As rightly said in the quote "Anger is the punishment we give to ourselves for someone else's mistakes." Many times the other person isn't affected at all by our anger. It's only our mood getting spoilt thereby ruining the day sometimes. It upsets our mind and then we aren't able to do work for the rest of the day as thoughts keep on coming. Instead of anger, we can try to understand why someone does something or what situation lead to the other situation. Sometimes we can just let go and ignore stuff too for our peace of mind. Share your thoughts about it. Have a good day. Take care!!
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@prashu228 (37518)
• India
20 Sep 21
Thats right..we harm ourselves with anger...
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Sep 21
True and it isn't good for us
@prashu228 (37518)
• India
20 Sep 21
@Rashnag yes ..
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@Nawsheen (28761)
• Mauritius
20 Sep 21
We must learn to control our emotions. Instead of getting angry, we must stay calm and focused to try find solutions instead.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Sep 21
Rightly said. I always try to do the same
@m_audrey6788 (58468)
• Germany
20 Sep 21
You have a point there. I used to get upset easily before but now I can control it and leave it to God
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• Germany
20 Sep 21
@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Sep 21
Glad to know. We all make progress in life
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@Manasha (2933)
• Pondicherry, India
20 Sep 21
Yes, self control is the key for success
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
21 Sep 21
True indeed
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
21 Sep 21
We should not make decisions when we are angry or should not be angry at all.
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@jobelbojel (36796)
• Philippines
21 Sep 21
@Rashnag So true and to any other emotions we have.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
21 Sep 21
Yes dear. We aren't in right state of mind when dealing with emotions so should avoid taking any decisions
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@aninditasen (18198)
• Raurkela, India
20 Sep 21
Yes, I do try to stay calm or try to reason out logically when someone tries it be illogical or inconsiderate with me, be it my children, but when they they try to take me for a ride or push through something unreasonable or are rude to me I do have to flare up to control the situation which I don't like but have to.
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@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
20 Sep 21
Ok dear.
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