Assume everyone is a scammer

@UmiNoor (4483)
Malaysia
September 30, 2021 1:27am CST
This is the advice I give to anyone who wants to join Facebook, Instagram or any dating site. It's from my own personal experience. Someone close to me got scammed on Facebook. The problem is he doesn't think he's being scammed until he's lost almost all of the money in his bank account. Just be careful when an unknown person sends you a message to get to know you. And I always advise to not put your real picture on your Facebook profile. Let the scammer guess your gender. It's when they know what gender you are that they can target you for their scam. And never use your real name. Or use a generic name that people cannot guess your gender like Robin or Kim. Be careful when going online.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
30 Sep 21
@UmiNoor Thank you and I know scammers in real life and they pray on innocent people that have helped them and they want more and more until one figures it out.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
Scammers online will not stop until they can empty your bank account. Must be very careful. I don't understand why a person wouldn't give money to people they know and yet online, he/she would give his/her money to someone they've never met before. Incredible sometimes these scammers how they can persuade people to part with their money.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
@Hannihar When you're new, you're usually seen as an easy target. Were you alone in that new place? Aren't you with your family? It's quite frightening to be all alone in a new place.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
30 Sep 21
@UmiNoor I moved to a new place and these two were too friendly and one kept complaining that he had no money and all these things so he said came up and he used me to get money from me and then had a key because I gave him one then and later he does not have one. So he helped himself to more things when I was not home. I finally caught on to what him and his partner or him and his boss were doing and have nothing to do wth them and they still try to do things because I will not talk to them anymore. You are right scammers are very bad and have to watch out for them. If I get an e-mail I will not open it if do not know or if accidentally do then ask someone or if have questions about something then ask someone too. Thanks and you were right to warn us.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
30 Sep 21
I use my real name but I don’t give chances to scammers. I can smile them a mile away from me. They usually target vulnerable and desperate people.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
@toniganzon Yeah, especially lonely, elderly people who just want some companionship. In my country, it's usually those who just retired who get targeted by these scammers on Facebook. They have money and they're mostly lonely people with an empty nest. Sometimes they're alone because their spouse has passed on. Truly sad.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
These scammers are very good at targeting people. I don't use my real name on Facebook but yet I still get messages from these people. I don't respond to people that I don't know in real life and online. I only respond to messages from people I know from other websites or in real life. Strangers are ignored. So that is how I guess I never got scammed. Anyway, I don't have the money to give these scammers so they'll be just wasting their time. Hahahah!
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
30 Sep 21
@UmiNoor they will message everybody but it’s up to you whether you entertain that or not. A wise person would know. But desperate people looking for love are always vulnerable. Easy targets.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 22
Many people want to be rich without working hard. I use my real name and Facebook and I only add someone that I have known before
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
19 Dec 22
Yes. That is the best move. Don't ever add people you don't know. It's very dangerous. Scammers are abound on Facebook just to take your money.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
19 Dec 22
@UmiNoor Scammers are everywhere.
@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
19 Dec 22
@ifa225 That is a good ideat to add those you have known before.
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@prashu228 (37526)
• India
30 Sep 21
I agree..there are lots of scammers...
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
I think more so because of the pandemic. People are staying in and going online a lot so scammers have a field day of finding targets to scam.
@prashu228 (37526)
• India
30 Sep 21
@UmiNoor one of the point...
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
19 Dec 22
So so true.
@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Sep 21
You should be careful when you are online.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
Definitely should be careful especially vulnerable elderlies who are lonely and when they find companionship on sites like Facebook, they just can't tell the difference between a real friend and a scammer.
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@jstory07 (134465)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Sep 21
@UmiNoor That is so true and so sad.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
@jstory07 I watched this Netflix drama series about lonely elderlies who went to online dating sites and pretended to be someone she's not. It didn't end well for everyone involved. Sad story.
• United States
30 Sep 21
That's good advice. I'm sorry to hear that your friend lost his money.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 21
Yeah. What to do. It happened to the best of us.
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• United States
1 Oct 21
@UmiNoor I guess so, but now as I get older, I try very hard not to be taken in.
@Nawsheen (28644)
• Mauritius
30 Sep 21
I only add people I closely know on all social networks. So no risk of getting scammed
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 21
That is a good practice.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
1 Oct 21
Oh geez your friend didn't see that coming
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 21
Right you are. These scammers are so slick. Me and my friend used to laugh at people who fell for these scammers. Now it had happened to one of us. We shouldn't have underestimated these scammers. They are so clever.
@franxav (13603)
• India
30 Sep 21
Thanks for alerting. In our area scammers are prowling and I was almost cheated of my money a few days ago.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
Have to be careful every time you go online. Just always assume people you don't know are trying to scam you. Only trust people you actually know in real life.
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
30 Sep 21
I put my real name on my FB page. I do not have money anyway.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
30 Sep 21
I think that these scammers know who they want to target and they only target those who have money to give them. People like us who have no money are not good marks for them. Thankfully, I guess.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
1 Oct 21
I rarely go to Facebook, you are right many are scammed there.
@yuliasss (150)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 21
Thank you for sharing.
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@UmiNoor (4483)
• Malaysia
1 Oct 21
You're welcome. If I can help others from getting scammed like my friend, I'm happy.
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