Why can't I find someone?

By Neil
@Neil43 (3167)
October 24, 2021 11:53pm CST
I have been into different relationships over the past 21 years. First I had an 8-year long relationship. Then a ten-year. And succeeding short ones. There were different reasons for break-ups but one thing I am sure about. It is really hard to find someone you can have same level of mutual understanding. I am currently trying to build a new relationship and it seems our relationship is progressing. I am very hopeful for this new relationship even though there were occasions I felt sad. How about you, guys?
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@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
25 Oct 21
Each of us has our respective destiny. Your past relationships are not really destined to proceed. Hope your new relationship will be prosper. I am one of those who married earlier. I married at 20 i don't know iff that is considered early.
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@Neil43 (3167)
26 Oct 21
I think that is a bit early if you did not finish a college degree that time yet.
@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
26 Oct 21
I've had three 'serious' relationship and various shorter ones. After a while, I realised that maybe the problem was with me. While it wasn't as simple as that, I did start to work on myself and learn how to be me on my own. During that process, I met the man who is now my husband. There were reasons that previous relationships didn't work but getting to know myself gave me the confidence to know that I wasn't just latching on to a new person but that this person was a bonus to my life.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Apr 22
That's tough to hear but if you can't find someone stay single until you get to find one that makes you happy.