Loneliness is suck
@Jigenj (75)
October 31, 2021 6:22pm CST
I have no friend. I don't like to go out with people due to lack of communication skills and some inner problems, I always feel unconfortable every time people talk to me or just sitting around me.
Today, I go to a coffee shop so that I can use their WiFi. It's too late to realize that separated from everyone, sitting alone while everyone hanging out with their lovers or friends. At that moment, I feel like I'm such a coward, can't make a friend, and will die alone and lonely.
How pathetic.
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11 responses
@NFS0306 (87)
• Singapore
1 Nov 21
You are introvert, aren't you? It's quite hard to speak first for being introvert. But perhaps you could try to train your communicate with your family although it won't be same with new people..
You mention that you have some inner problem, maybe you could try "self healing"
If you ever watch Korean drama "it's okay not to be okay" they show how to do "self healing"..
Hope you can smile and happy for yourself..
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@kaylachan (57615)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
31 Oct 21
Only you have the power to change it. Avoidiance doesn't solve anything.
@Jigenj (75)
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1 Nov 21
I know:' I'm trying, but somehow speak about my inability makes me feel good. Thank you so much.
@RebeccasFarm (86757)
• United States
31 Oct 21
We are here for you.
I know it is not the same as physically.
You will have friends and love one day
@RebeccasFarm (86757)
• United States
1 Nov 21
@Jigenj Yes as long as the site is active here we will be here. I believe positive things are coming to you friend, you are welcome
@RasmaSandra (73386)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Nov 21
You have to gain the courage to reach out and make friends,
@ihasaquestion (8274)
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1 Nov 21
Everybody will die someday, so don't make your introvert nature a way for you to feel demoralized. You are here, aren't you? Which means you are not pathetic at all. Be happy and stay positive.
@JimBo452020 (42629)
• United Kingdom
31 Oct 21
Can I ask how old you are?
Your communication skills on this site are OK
Do you have a social anxiety issue?
This phase of your life will pass.
You will make friends
And you will not die alone and lonely
@MarieCoyle (28455)
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1 Nov 21
I do not know your circumstances, but put yourself out there. Be happy and smile, greet others. You look young in your picture. You will find friends here, but the only one that can make in-person friends for you, is you. You aren't going to die alone and lonely.
@solidcodes (1690)
• Philippines
31 Oct 21
Is that you on your avatar photo?
To be alone is good sometimes but not always.
