I am not everyone's cup of tea

Philippines
December 22, 2021 3:47am CST
Hello there, its 5:35 pm here Philippine timeand it just finished raining. Its a bit cold now but I can manage. I came across this qoute a while back and thought that maybe alot can relate . During my younger years, I was too quick at defending myself from false accusations and judgment . And as I grow older, I realized that I dont have to do that any longer. WHY??? Simple . People will believe according to their morals and taste. I've gotten used to just observing people rather than judging them.That way if they just believe without verifying it to me then I know who to cut off in my life. I've learned that we cannot please anybody and we shouldnt waste our time proving it . Lets just focus on the good things thats what matters the most.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
22 Dec 21
I'm glad you stopped defending yourself. It's good not to judge people.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
23 Dec 21
@iKONICNoona That's true. You can't change other people's opinions, you can only be you.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4403)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@just4him I got tired to be honest and I thought that people will see you according to their perspective no matter what defense or explanation I make and I am accepting that fact . Advance Merry Christmas.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4403)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@just4him Very well said maam.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
23 Dec 21
I think many younger people want to be liked by everyone but as you mature, it doesn't become so important.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (382240)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Dec 21
@iKONICNoona Thank you for the good wishes and I hope you have an enjoyable time too.
Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4403)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@JudyEv I agree with you on that. I was young before too and I remember that sometime on those younger year I tried pleasing everybody to make a good impression but I observed I made a mistake once and that mistake really showed me their true colors , they defined me by the mistake I made even though I said sorry , but its ok I have accepted it long time ago. Advance Merry Christmas.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
22 Dec 21
True, people will behave according to their choice. But we can choose what to do and what not to do. No one has the right to change our priorities.
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Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4403)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@Sreekala 100 percent true and correct. Advance Merry Christmas.
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Dec 21
@iKONICNoona Thank you and Merry Christmas to you.
Rashna Gandhi
@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
22 Dec 21
Rightly said. I agree. I have this habit to see everyone is happy with me. I am trying not to do it many times but sometimes I struggle about it even after growing up. Let's keep on trying
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Rashna Gandhi
@Rashnag (30597)
• Surat, India
24 Dec 21
Patricia Ocampo
@iKONICNoona (4403)
• Philippines
23 Dec 21
@Rashnag I agree with you. And besides people will see you based on their judgment , lets just do what is right so that everyone is happy. Advance Merry Christmas.
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