Wy do so many women want money right from the beginning of a relationship?

Hm, maybe you are barking up the wrong tree, looking for someone online. I have found it's best to look for someone in person, someone who shares the same interests that you do. Have you tried that, or tried one of those lunch dating sites?

Replace "women" with "scammers" and... well, that's their job. The biggest red flag is asking for ID proof, as they probably want to steal your identity for malicious purposes, which is way worse than asking for money, in my opinion. If a lady approaches you first, likely a scammer. Not always, but it's often the case. I agree with those who commented you're probably looking in the wrong places. It has to occur naturally, I wouldn't suggest dating apps or groups that are meant for dating because of scammers, among other things. It's better to join groups about things you like, shared interests, so you can make friends and hopefully a lover too.

Because they aren't necessarily women. Most are men, looking to scam you out of your hard-earned money. It's a very popular, and common scam. If you're looking for romance online, do your research. Many of those free sites, are run by scammers looking to make a quick buck off some poor unsuspecting person. Truth be told, your best bet is to try for an in-person relationship.

I feel meeting someone in person is the best way. Joining groups or volunteering is a great way to meet people.

That is why I believe that only verified people should sit on dating sites so that you can complain about them for fraud, extortion of money is a crime

All kinds of people are on this internet ! And most of them are trying to benefit from the goodness of others !

Maybe you looking on the wrong places. I get a lot of guys that typically talk to me and they always ask me if I’m a lonely house wife to which I tell them no. Then they offer to be my sugar daddy if only I send them money. To which I tell them no because nope not paying for anyone that I don’t have to.

You should not look for love through social media, you just have to meet someone in person that is when you can be sure that the person is right for you.

Cause theyre either scammers or bots.

It works both ways. I am not wanting money from anyone, as money is not what makes us all happy. I've walked that path years ago with someone who thought it did. I have been contacted and asked for money by men who thought I had some, I guess. There are people who are not looking for money, but they don't have money to finance someone else, either. Some people would simply enjoy companionship and love.

Possibly meeting women in the wrong places. Not all women are that way. Church, small get togethers, friends, etc are nice ways to meet women. When the right one comes along, you will know!