how do you tell if someone still loves you?
By Brenda
@Brideen40 (495)
Kenya
February 10, 2022 3:28am CST
Is it normal for a guy who showed he is totally in love with you change depending on how he wakes up(I did not know how to describe this feeling)
one morning he is playful, you all laughing at each others` jokes ..the next morning he is moody and doesn`t even want to talk to you.. not even a good morning
Am I overthinking or it is something normal
Such behavior makes me feel unwanted because every woman needs affection.
I am not willing to live with someone depending on how they feel it`s boring and makes one feel desperate.
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Feb 22
I guess that means they may end up being violent at some point
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@askme123 (6150)
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10 Feb 22
@Brideen40 Yes depending on how many different personalities at play.
He could also be narcissistic or bipolar.
Do you two live together?
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Feb 22
@Kandae11 his actions ..two different personalities in one person ..hard to understand
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
11 Feb 22
@askme123 I won`t marry him, that`s a lot of torture for a life time
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@LadyDuck (458308)
• Switzerland
10 Feb 22
@Brideen40 We have bad days, we wake up a little grumpy, but not so grumpy not even to say good morning.
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Feb 22
Am hoping he isn`t but sadly can`t change that
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@mildredtabitha (16053)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Feb 22
Maybe you should check with a psychologist to understand his behavior. It might have nothing to do with you
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@Brideen40 (495)
• Kenya
10 Feb 22
I`ll take that into consideration.. maybe am not the problem
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@Vikingswest1 (6305)
• United States
10 Feb 22
I don't think it's a good sign if a partner disrespects you in that way.
If he treats you this way now, I think it will likely get worse as time passes. If he won't even talk to you in the morning, he is treating you with disrespect. Don't take it. Tell him he is out of line.
Give him a chance to change if you think it's worth the effort.
If he won't change, boot him to the curb.
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@its_kantereigns (4)
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12 Feb 22
I suggest you take time and understand what makes him moody. Also try treating him with the same affection you want from him, it might help. We men go through a lot and most of us find it difficult to open up.
