Poetry: Turning the other cheek

Love is not about winning, and yet it always does win
@innertalks (23734)
Australia
February 27, 2022 11:02pm CST
Turning the other cheek, isn't about giving in. Nor is it about, about-facing to try to win, either. We can love everyone, by loving them for real, to begin. Refuse to hate anyone, and do not count wrongs, neither. React for sure, but react with no reaction, other than with love. Love is the best reaction, and response to all events that shove. When we respond with love, we offer our heart to the other too. Peace can exist only where love still exists, still alive true. Forgiveness brings you closer to the heart of God's love. The first step of forgiveness, is to offer your other cheek. We cannot forgive, when we do not yet fully, fully love. Love gives strength to both the forgiver, and to the forgiven. Photo Credit: The photo used in this article was sourced from the free media site, pixabay.com Love is not about winning, and yet it always does win.
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@askme123 (6223)
28 Feb 22
I like that picture. If we had more love in the world it would be a far better place.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
Yes, l agree. It, our world, would be a more wonderful place if all could/would love as much as they can do so. Yes, the picture illustrates my point well, l think too.
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@askme123 (6223)
28 Feb 22
@innertalks If there was more love in the world there would be more peace. There would be less wars and murders.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
@askme123 Yes, peace comes from a greater acceptance of others, which is a part of our loving them too, I think.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
28 Feb 22
I love the way you delivered the wordings of this poem.
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@Shavkat (141906)
• Philippines
1 Mar 22
@innertalks I felt bad about it. It seems some people wanted to take advantage of the current situation.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
1 Mar 22
@Shavkat Yes, there are always some types, who will come out of the woodwork to take advantage of any situation like this. Even here in Australia, there is major flooding here right now, and looters have come out to loot abandoned houses. They are being called grubs, not Australians.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
Thanks. I was sort of inspired by the war in the World at the moment, as in this dire situation of War, it would be very hard indeed to turn the other cheek towards the aggressor.
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@franxav (14588)
• India
28 Feb 22
Truly a Christian message. Can one find it anywhere else?
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
No, I do not think that that teaching is to be found elsewhere, as in most other religions, there is a cry for justice to be done, and judgements to be made. In Islam, for example, we find this verse in the Koran. Quran 5:45. And therein We had ordained for them: 'A life for a life, and an eye for an eye, and a nose for a nose, and an ear for an ear, and a tooth for a tooth, and for all wounds, like for like.'
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
2 Mar 22
@Shiva49 Yes, but to be fair, the next verse clarifies this, a bit more. They are saying that God, originally ordained that this action (an eye for an eye, the right of retaliation) would be fair, but that he then gave conscience to humans, lifting them above the animals, who abide by this rule. "But whosoever forgoes it by way of charity, it will be for him an expiation." Then in a later verse, this is said too: (verse 75) "Whoever forgoes his right of retaliation does a good deed which will atone for many of his sins. The same is confirmed by a tradition of the Prophet (peace be on him) in which he said: 'Whoever receives an injury on his body, then pardons (the inflictor of the injury), his sins are atoned for to the measure of his pardoning.'" Quoting stuff, without the background readings, can give a different slant on what is meant then, and make it sound worse, than what was really being said. Like all scripture, the Koran, is up to interpretation too, and is a bit hard to understand, and to fathom, at times too.
@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
2 Mar 22
@innertalks That quote denotes a negation of love and life itself!
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@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
2 Mar 22
Well said Steve, love is the panacea and antidote for all our accumulated ills. Love touches our hearts and courses through our veins and our existence but is most underrated and taken for granted. We have built a life system based on hypocrisy but love is ever on tap to give us a reality check to get back on the right path of bliss and fulfillment. We need to bite the bullet in the sense we have to think out of the box of self-created delusions! When love takes over, all are winners in the game of life and existence.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
2 Mar 22
Thanks, siva. That's well put, too. We have our feelings and thoughts, that usually spring up first. Feelings can stop us from following good thoughts, and they can also fuel and create bad thoughts too. Emotions can sometimes even bypass thoughts, and launch themselves at others, in a flooding way too, like anger can do so. Thoughts should curb emotions, and balance them, not fuel them more too. In the background of both thoughts and feelings, we should respect love, and so allow love to come to the fore, and stonker any wrong thought from being actioned, or any wrong feeling/emotion from being displayed, and thrown at someone else too. We should live from love, for love, a life in actioned love, by allowing love to influence both our thoughts, and our feelings then too.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
3 Mar 22
@Shiva49 Yes, generally, the lowly worker, boot-wearing types, can see love, and connect in that way to others, but when somebody has a position higher than the normal person, either madness, or badness, might suddenly arise in them, to help them to try to meet (overcome) their incompetence, at being trusted into such a position. Not many, at a higher level, in our societies, can ignore these fear-driven needs, of their position, and still keep a level head, connected to a heart of love, too.
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@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
3 Mar 22
@innertalks Reality is such, we are led by suspicions of others' motives. That is applicable both at individual and national levels. This keeps us at loggerheads. We need love to oil the relationships for it to shine the light ahead for future generations than leave a quarrelsome legacy that leads us nowhere.
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@Kandae11 (57233)
28 Feb 22
Love they neighbor as thyself - if we do that we won't want to hurt him or her.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
That's true. Not many people like to hurt themselves. We should love others, and never think of hurting them, treating them as a good friend, or neighbour, if we can do so.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
2 Mar 22
@Shiva49 Yes, truth can be freeing to all who hear it with an open heart, and mind. We should allow a certain amount of slack in our relationships, and not play the hard line with people. We should forgive easily, and not want our pound of flesh, at any cost, both to them, and to ourselves too. We should be friendly, rather than adversarial.
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@Shiva49 (28366)
• Singapore
2 Mar 22
@innertalks I like to bend over backward to please my neighbors and love has cut through hardened attitudes of suspicion. I recall "Truth from his lips prevailed with double sway, And fools, who came to scoff, remained to pray." I would substitute with love which is the greatest enabler for coexistence and peace.
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@sharonelton (30756)
• Lichfield, England
28 Feb 22
This is so true.
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@innertalks (23734)
• Australia
28 Feb 22
Thanks. I am pleased that you agree with my thoughts.
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@sharonelton (30756)
• Lichfield, England
1 Mar 22
@innertalks You're welcome. Have a nice day.
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