One partner for lifetime
@aninditasen (17468)
Raurkela, India
June 20, 2022 8:06am CST
Me and my husband spend 34 years of our lives together. He is no more with me today and has left for his heavenly abode, but his memories are with me. I can't measure how much he loved me but he always said that he cannot live without me. He would leave the house immediately if ever I left the world before him. He was very possessive about me and always wanted my presence around him.
Today I am alone without him but can't think of another man in my life. He is my invisible partner forever now.
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@sharonelton (30769)
• Lichfield, England
20 Jun 22
It's lovely that you were together for 34 years. You sound like you were very committed to one another and that is a very rare thing in this day and age. I salute you. 
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
Ours was an arranged marriage. As years went by we don't know when we started loving each other. We never discussed about commitment but were concerned about each others well being.
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@sharonelton (30769)
• Lichfield, England
21 Jun 22
@aninditasen That's amazing. How wonderful that you fell in love. Maybe I should get an arranged marriage! 
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
@sharonelton You can, but meet the person and at least talk and know about his attitude. Me and my husband met once before marriage and spoke to each other about our attitude towards married life.
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@RebeccasFarm (95566)
• Arvada, Colorado
20 Jun 22
I am so happy to know that he was so kind and loving to you.
You were blessed to have him Anindita and I am so sorry he is no longer there RIP
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@RebeccasFarm (95566)
• Arvada, Colorado
21 Jun 22
@aninditasen Of course you did, quite understandable. I wish you peace at least Anindita and again I am so sorry.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
22 Jun 22
@RebeccasFarm Thanks for your condolence. I think I am much stronger now and can manage things single handed.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
I just felt like dying when he left this world. I found it very difficult to cope without him. Anyway I have gathered strength and he is watching me from heaven wading through life.
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@Juliaacv (54223)
• Canada
21 Jun 22
@aninditasen I wasn't aware of that, but you have indeed the best love forever in him.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
@Juliaacv Yes, he loved me madly and sometimes asked me if I thought him to be mad and we had a good laugh.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
Yes, lucky enough for a person who said that he would marry me in our next life as we Indians believe in rebirth.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
Yes, his memories will be there with me forever.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
He used to say that we would meet again in our next birth as we Indians believe in rebirth.
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@m_audrey6788 (58470)
• Germany
20 Jun 22
I`m sure that he wants you to be happy always. 
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
I cannot fall in love with another man. At least not in this life.
@sjvg1976 (42043)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 22
It's not easy to live with a person for so long but when you love someone these years look small time. I have been married for 16 years and looks as if we married yesterday only.
I know it becomes difficult to live alone when you become habitual to living with a person for so many years.
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@sjvg1976 (42043)
• Delhi, India
21 Jun 22
@aninditasen absolutely. It takes a few years to understand the nature of a partner when it's an arranged marriage
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
@sjvg1976 Yes, understanding materialises into mutual adjustment which is very normal. For example me and my husband have different food habits. Slowly he started experimenting with food of my liking and I his. Only he never ate chicken and egg and I have never forced him.
@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
In India where marriages are arranged by parents as was our love develops gradually and so I think stays with us even when one partner is gone. His memories does away with my loneliness.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
21 Jun 22
Yes, that's for sure. He won't come back I know but he is always there with me mentally.
@Nakitakona (58320)
• Philippines
24 Jun 22
It's good you understand his possessive attitude.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
25 Jun 22
I had to as he went mad if I ever remained away from him for long.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
27 Jun 22
@Nakitakona Not only possessive men but women too. I have seen my mother-in-law go mad if her children didn't see her often.
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@Nakitakona (58320)
• Philippines
27 Jun 22
@aninditasen That's the very nature of a possessive man.
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@aninditasen (17468)
• Raurkela, India
12 Jul 22
Yes he will always be in my heart and I keep talking to him in my dreams.
