Big decision I need to think

@Cha_20 (186)
Quezon, Philippines
July 8, 2022 7:43pm CST
Past few months, I wanted to be Independent in my Life. I want to rent a apartment that separate in my family. I don’t know if it is practical decision or right. I’m not minor age rather so I guess this is a proper path i need to take. But ofcourse,I nervous if I doing this. If you are in my path,what will you do? Can I get some opinion?
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4 responses
• Philippines
9 Jul 22
Can you financially afford it without getting into debt? You'll be paying for everything, big and small, yourself. You might need to buy additional stuff. Do you know basic chores like cooking, cleaning, laundry, and simple repairs? Can you afford to pay someone to do them? Find an apartment close to your place of work to save on time, money and energy. Find an apartment that's safe and secure while you're out. That also means checking your things every time you leave, plus the windows, anything electrical, etc.
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@Cha_20 (186)
• Quezon, Philippines
9 Jul 22
Yes. I have work right now. I know some household chores. The problem is I feel scared of doing that,I don’t know if I ready to take but I really wanted to take this.
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• Philippines
9 Jul 22
@Cha_20 Maybe try finding someone who wants a roommate.
@elmer0421 (363)
10 Jul 22
I remember when I was taking care my baby niece, at her very young age, she wants freedom and choose to do with what she wants but for children, they need guidance.In your case I suggest you to communicate your wanting to live independently to your family.You have to consider your safety also especially when you are living alone...Living independently can also mean preparing your own meals, doing your own laundry etc.But I understand that.Many children for sure want to live independently especially when they are living with difficult people on their lives.
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@Cha_20 (186)
• Quezon, Philippines
10 Jul 22
When you plan to dicuss that matter in your family I guess it said to you that you don’t need to separate with them. To be honest I’m not already try that,just my guess only if I take that.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Jul 22
Practically, one day you will have to live separately so I don't think there is anything wrong with taking this decision. Just discuss with your parents if you're living with them presently.
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@Zufaqar1 (246)
9 Jul 22
Welcome to mylot I hope you enjoyed it
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@Cha_20 (186)
• Quezon, Philippines
9 Jul 22
Thank you