Happy Crush
@aleahcim0827 (38)
Manila, Philippines
September 10, 2022 2:20am CST
It has been years since I felt this way for someone. I met someone who inspires me to do a lot of things right now. He makes me want to improve myself more. He is really good-looking and a nice person. I am just happy right now because I am able to speak with him like normal friends do. I admitted how I feel the other day and what amazed me was he's cool about it. His treatment didn't change.
Now, I am on a diet. It's because he likes skinny girls. I'll be taking an exam on October which is related to my profession. I am going to attend an advance training related to speaking improvement. Also, I am learning another foreign language. After my exam on October, I'm planning to take another class related to his language. I don't know. I am just really inspired to learn a lot of new things and improve myself. But the main reason for doing these things is personal growth.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
10 Sep 22
Totally agree. I have never changed physically to be liked by anybody because what if he started to like me co i lost weight and then during our relationship i started gaining weight? Does that mean i would lose him?
That’s why i don’t do things to please others, i do things to please myself first. And if i feel good and happy about loving myself then i can make people to love me as well.
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@aleahcim0827 (38)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Sep 22
I am actually overweight. I have no intentions of catching his attention and attempt to be in a relationship with him. I just like being friends and be inspired.
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@LadyDuck (460235)
• Switzerland
11 Sep 22
@aleahcim0827 If you are overweight this is another matter, to lose weight is good for your health.
@josie_ (9763)
• Philippines
10 Sep 22
He seems good for you if it encourages you to improve yourself. I won't make the extra effort if the reason is only to please him. I take it he is a foreigner since you mention learning his language. If you are at your correct weight I don't think you should go on a crash diet just because he likes "skinny girls". It can be medically debilitating.
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@aleahcim0827 (38)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Sep 22
I am actually overweight. He's half Filipino, half Japanese. I have no intention to please him. I am just inspired and wanted to improve myself.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
10 Sep 22
I’m glad you could talk to him comfortably. I really don’t like the idea of changing myself to be liked by someone.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
15 Sep 22
@aleahcim0827 That should be the case and you should never ever do things for anybody's pleasure. It should be for your own self satisfaction.
@aleahcim0827 (38)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Sep 22
I have no intentions to be liked by him. I just like the feeling of being inspired.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Sep 22
If there are things you want to improve for yourself then do it, but I wouldn't ever change yourself for another person. They could be here today and gone tomorrow.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Sep 22
@aleahcim0827 Well that's good! Nothing wrong with inspiration. 
@aleahcim0827 (38)
• Manila, Philippines
11 Sep 22
I am not changing myself for him. I am just inspired and wanted to improve myself. I have no intentions of catching his attention.
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@Beestring (13465)
• Hong Kong
10 Sep 22
It's really great that you met someone who inspires you to improve yourself.
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